"This guy I'm seeing is obsessed with get-rich-quick books and tapes. He's always repeating affirmations to himself. When he asked me what I thought of his latest book, I told him I thought most people do OK financially when they just find a job they're good at, live within their means, and save — rather than go in for the latest self-help mantras. He responded that I had limited thinking and a fear of success. I'm starting to see a red flag here."
Do you think this is a big deal?