I have been dating this amazing guy for about eight months. We don't live together, but we spend a lot of time over at each other's apartments. We've got a great open relationship where we talk about everything, but about two weeks ago, he took our closeness a little too far.
I was in the shower and he came in, which wasn't a big deal. He sat down on the toilet - he sometimes pees like that, so I didn't think anything of it. But then I smelled something and I said, "Babe?" And he said, "Sorry, I really had to go."
I totally freaked out. I mean going #2 is a private event, and not something you need to subject someone else to. I told him that wasn't cool at all and I am still completely grossed out by it. I don't even want to take a shower in front of him anymore for fear that he'll drop another bomb. I don't even want to bring it up to him because talking about bathroom stuff just makes me cringe. What was he thinking?
It was such a turn off that it's kind of ruined our sex life. Should I forgive him for this dirty deed or ditch him?