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Sunday Confessional: I Can't Believe He Did That While I Was in the Shower!

Sunday Confessional: I Can't Believe He Did That While I Was in the Shower!

I have been dating this amazing guy for about eight months. We don't live together, but we spend a lot of time over at each other's apartments. We've got a great open relationship where we talk about everything, but about two weeks ago, he took our closeness a little too far.

I was in the shower and he came in, which wasn't a big deal. He sat down on the toilet - he sometimes pees like that, so I didn't think anything of it. But then I smelled something and I said, "Babe?" And he said, "Sorry, I really had to go."

I totally freaked out. I mean going #2 is a private event, and not something you need to subject someone else to. I told him that wasn't cool at all and I am still completely grossed out by it. I don't even want to take a shower in front of him anymore for fear that he'll drop another bomb. I don't even want to bring it up to him because talking about bathroom stuff just makes me cringe. What was he thinking?

It was such a turn off that it's kind of ruined our sex life. Should I forgive him for this dirty deed or ditch him?

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bawp125 bawp125 8 years
Everybody poops!!
bawp125 bawp125 8 years
Everybody poops!!
Martini-Rossi Martini-Rossi 8 years
Seriously, if he's the guy you see yourself with for a long time if not the rest of your life then GET OVER IT! every one destroys the bathroom, if you gotta go then go. If your not that into to him then good luck with that! lol
Martini-Rossi Martini-Rossi 8 years
Seriously, if he's the guy you see yourself with for a long time if not the rest of your life then GET OVER IT! every one destroys the bathroom, if you gotta go then go.If your not that into to him then good luck with that! lol
swtsunkisses88 swtsunkisses88 8 years
the way i see it, things do happen. I guess it depends how bad he really had to go... and how many bathrooms there were...
happygurlo_11 happygurlo_11 8 years
Forgive him.....and I have a feeling that you don't truly love your bf....if you love him, this would not be that big of a deal...
ummmidkman ummmidkman 8 years
this poster is an idiot. lol
ummmidkman ummmidkman 8 years
this poster is an idiot. lol
ummmidkman ummmidkman 8 years
wow fucking get over it. you are ridiculous
ummmidkman ummmidkman 8 years
wow fucking get over it. you are ridiculous
ambermarie ambermarie 8 years
haha uhm, i actually think he should ditch youuu, people who expect to be and want to be in a long term relationship dont react this irrationally over such little things
higgydt4 higgydt4 8 years
Everyone poops...forgive the poor guy for pete sakes! It's nothing to get mad over.
LittleLady12 LittleLady12 8 years
I honestly cannot believe all the commenters who say they can't even pee without someone walking in on them...to each their own, but hello! Isn't that why you close the door? Maybe you should teach your kids to respect when a door is closed and knock. My parents have been married for 30 years, and they've never even peed in front of each other. EVER. Again, it is NOT just "expected" for you to accept because you're in a serious relationship...
LittleLady12 LittleLady12 8 years
No, this is NOT something that "comes with the territory" of a relationship or marriage! Some things shall be kept private no matter if you've been dating for a month or have been married for decades! That's disgusting, and I don't blame you or being grossed out. But this is a forgivable offense. Tell him point blank that if that ever happens again that you would gladly hop out of the shower to let him go. Seriously...ew.
calygirl calygirl 8 years
Your kidding right? Getting upset over something like this just shows your not mature enough for a real relationship. I'd say your way to high maintenance. Everybody does this and after 8 months of being together you should be ok with that. Grow up!
Marci Marci 8 years
As the saying goes, shit happens. Normally, pooing is private time. But since this is real life and things don't always going according to the script, everyone needs to be able to improvise. When ya gotta go, ya gotta go; and he had to go. I agree with everyone else. If you really are planning a future with this guy, you'll have to get over this kind of thing.
Marci Marci 8 years
As the saying goes, shit happens. Normally, pooing is private time. But since this is real life and things don't always going according to the script, everyone needs to be able to improvise. When ya gotta go, ya gotta go; and he had to go. I agree with everyone else. If you really are planning a future with this guy, you'll have to get over this kind of thing.
MiyabiNa MiyabiNa 8 years
umm...get over it. People poop. It happens. He feels comfortable enough to do it in front of you so feel special. My bf does it all the time...I joke about it sometimes but oh well..it happens...it's whatever. Now I don't do it in front of him...but he feels comfortable enough to do it in front of me so be it. Guys are gross sometimes, you should know that by now...
MiyabiNa MiyabiNa 8 years
umm...get over it. People poop. It happens. He feels comfortable enough to do it in front of you so feel special. My bf does it all the time...I joke about it sometimes but oh well..it happens...it's whatever.Now I don't do it in front of him...but he feels comfortable enough to do it in front of me so be it. Guys are gross sometimes, you should know that by now...
ria25 ria25 8 years
It sounds "dramatic" and all...it's just taking a shit and it happens sooner or later in a relationship ...but it should happen LATER. The fact that you are that grossed out shows that the level of intimacy for you is nowhere near being able to take a shit in front of/in the same place as each other. If you have question whether or not to dump him for this, you probably should.
Tiinnaaaa Tiinnaaaa 8 years
oof.. I WANNA say forgive, cos its 8 months.. and well it must be pretty serious.. But ew. seriously.. FIRMLY tell him that cannot happen again. Ever.
DCStar DCStar 8 years
I don't understand how you can have sex with someone, but be uncomfortable with them using the toilet in front of you. IMO, sex is much more intimate! Talking bathroom stuff makes you cringe? We're all just human, and it's a fact of life. Everybody poops! Maybe you should read that book :)
rubialala rubialala 8 years
Forgive. Assuming you only have one restroom, everyone's comments are right on. If you gotta go, you gotta go!
Alisha_Stiletto Alisha_Stiletto 8 years
Dude, you crap too.And if he couldnt hold it, what would you like him to do?Its going to happen.And guess what? I might happen to you next.There are worse things.SNORE
Alisha_Stiletto Alisha_Stiletto 8 years
Dude, you crap too. And if he couldnt hold it, what would you like him to do? Its going to happen. And guess what? I might happen to you next. There are worse things. SNORE
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