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Sunday Confessional: I Didn't Call Her Back

Sunday Confessional: I Didn't Call Her Back

A few weekends ago, I took a girl out on a date. By the time we left dinner, I had had a glass of wine and she’d had three cocktails. At the bar, she proceeded to get completely drunk, and within an hour of us getting there, she couldn't keep her hands off me. She was a beautiful girl, don't get me wrong, but it was incredibly unattractive to see her throwing herself at me in her drunken state. I decided it just wasn’t working out and convinced her to leave.

I took her home and she tried to coerce me inside. Call me old-fashioned, but I’m not the kind of guy who has sex on the first date, especially with someone who wouldn't even remember it the next day. I left as fast as I could and when she called the next day, I didn’t call her back.

Last weekend I saw her at a mutual friend's party. We made eye contact and I gave her a half nod to be polite. She walked over to me and started yelling about how horrible of a man I was and how I abandoned her when she was too drunk to see straight. I was shocked. She totally put me on the spot and I don't think I did anything wrong. Should I be forgiven for not staying with her or calling her the next day?


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