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Sunday Confessional: Shouldn't My Husband Be Enough?

Sunday Confessional: Shouldn't My Husband Be Enough?

Dear Sugar

I have been with my husband for a long time. We dated for six years before we we got engaged and we have been married for just over three years. Everyday with him has been wonderful. We are best friends and have a very loving and playful relationship based on trust, understanding and mutual respect.

Our sex life is very satisfying too. We're still hot and heavy in the sack and we have sex on average about twice a week. I don't know what's come over me lately though. It seems like every time we are in the middle of intercourse my mind wanders and I start thinking about other men; cute men, not so cute men, movie stars etc... My mind pretty much just races around and finds the faces of guys.

This is totally freaking me out. It's not like I even consciously fantasize about men, or even want to be with other men - so why is this happening? It's starting to upset me and make me feel really guilty. Shouldn't my husband be enough?

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