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Dear Sugar
I told a little white lie to a cute guy that I met last week. He told me that he was leaving the country, so I thought that I'd never be found out.

But after talking with him for hours, he's made plans to come back to see me in a month. I am so excited, but now I am scared that when he finds out, he's never going to trust me again.

The lie was that I was a virgin ... but I am really not. What should I do? Deflowered Dee

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Dear Deflowered Dee
I guess after one conversation you are ready to sleep with him, huh. Don't play too hard to get now, ya hear?

Well, looks like you've learned your lesson about telling lies, but unless this guy is ultra religious, I don't think that this one is going to be too hard to recover from. So what was the point of the lie? Are you ashamed that you are not a virgin or are you just using the lure of virginity to attract men?

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