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True Confession — I'm Toying With His Emotions

True Confession — I'm Toying With His Emotions

I know how much you all love our Sunday Confessional, so my friend at True Confessions is joining forces with me to bring you a midweek confessional! Weigh in and tell us if you forgive or don't forgive the confessional below.

"My ex is trying to get back together with me. I have no plans on going through with it but I sure am enjoying the sense of power I feel right now! Is toying with his emotions forgivable?"

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dikke-kus dikke-kus 7 years
Yes, who broke up with whom, and what were the circumstances. That is the question. I took a slice of revenge once. It felt pretty good. He broke up with me in a horrible shocking way. Left me for the bosses daughter. Then wanted me back. Ok. Well, hmm lets see. I started with expensive dinners and dates. He paid for everything. I would ignore some of his phone calls when I knew he needed to talk. I told him there was another man at the time so I wasn't sure if I could commit, but I'd be happy to give it a try. Meanwhile bosses daughter is living with him....... This old boyfriend in question was rich and cold and competitive and the new boyfriend had millions. This only heightened his sick sense of winning and I used this to my advantage. Later after a while I made it more and more clear I was losing interest and slammed a door in his face. Never saw him again. Oh well.
dikke-kus dikke-kus 7 years
Yes, who broke up with whom, and what were the circumstances. That is the question.I took a slice of revenge once. It felt pretty good. He broke up with me in a horrible shocking way. Left me for the bosses daughter. Then wanted me back. Ok. Well, hmm lets see. I started with expensive dinners and dates. He paid for everything. I would ignore some of his phone calls when I knew he needed to talk. I told him there was another man at the time so I wasn't sure if I could commit, but I'd be happy to give it a try. Meanwhile bosses daughter is living with him.......This old boyfriend in question was rich and cold and competitive and the new boyfriend had millions. This only heightened his sick sense of winning and I used this to my advantage. Later after a while I made it more and more clear I was losing interest and slammed a door in his face. Never saw him again. Oh well.
AshleyBaker AshleyBaker 8 years
Undecided... We need to know a WHOLE lot more of the story than that to be able to effectively vote on this question...
AshleyBaker AshleyBaker 8 years
Undecided...We need to know a WHOLE lot more of the story than that to be able to effectively vote on this question...
sugar-n-spice sugar-n-spice 8 years
who broke up with whom?
sugar-n-spice sugar-n-spice 8 years
who broke up with whom?
Soapboxer Soapboxer 8 years
Um, lame much?
Soapboxer Soapboxer 8 years
Um, lame much?
tiggles101 tiggles101 8 years
Enjoy it while it lasts.
tiggles101 tiggles101 8 years
Enjoy it while it lasts.
smp7328 smp7328 8 years
i hate it when people do that. total crap. it's games like these that really screw people up.
animatedpunk animatedpunk 8 years
i'm also undecided. it depends on if he did anything in the past to deserve it. And I'd be careful to not take it TOO far.
ufshutterbabe ufshutterbabe 8 years
Last time I heard that line from a friend about her ex, it was actually a cover for her because she did want to get back with him, even after all the crappy stuff he did to her. She made it sound just like you are, that she was just f'ing with him for revenge, but then it quickly turned into jumping back into bed with him. If you're done with him, then be done and move on completely. Don't waste your time screwing with his head. Not healthy for either of you.
ufshutterbabe ufshutterbabe 8 years
Last time I heard that line from a friend about her ex, it was actually a cover for her because she did want to get back with him, even after all the crappy stuff he did to her. She made it sound just like you are, that she was just f'ing with him for revenge, but then it quickly turned into jumping back into bed with him. If you're done with him, then be done and move on completely. Don't waste your time screwing with his head. Not healthy for either of you.
soccerfreak soccerfreak 8 years
I have been cheated on by an ex, and he came crawling back, after he realized how stupid he was to let me go.... I had absolutely no intention of getting back with him ever, and I will admit that for a second I thought about how good it would feel to hurt him the same way he hurt me...but then I realized...I am a grown ass woman, and why would I lower myself to that level? What good does it do? If that brings joy to your life....well then I would suggest that you get a life.
soccerfreak soccerfreak 8 years
I have been cheated on by an ex, and he came crawling back, after he realized how stupid he was to let me go....I had absolutely no intention of getting back with him ever, and I will admit that for a second I thought about how good it would feel to hurt him the same way he hurt me...but then I realized...I am a grown ass woman, and why would I lower myself to that level? What good does it do? If that brings joy to your life....well then I would suggest that you get a life.
BeachBarbie BeachBarbie 8 years
This doesn't sound healthy at all...and I'm mostly talking about you. Move on, and stop playing games. What's the point indulging in such negative behavior. Plus, it could be dangerous for you...physically. It's time to grow up. :)
happiness80 happiness80 8 years
oh by the way, try to keep yourself physically safe. considering he is your ex. he probably knows your address.
happiness80 happiness80 8 years
When a guy does the same to you in the near future, I look forward to reading that story! ;-) If he never cheated on you, you are possibly turning him into a guy who hates commitment...ruining him for other women. Stop being immature.
happiness80 happiness80 8 years
When a guy does the same to you in the near future, I look forward to reading that story! ;-)If he never cheated on you, you are possibly turning him into a guy who hates commitment...ruining him for other women.Stop being immature.
lindholmka lindholmka 8 years
Unforgive. I think you need to grow up. I'm glad you find STOOPING to his level exhilarating because to the rest of the world it's immature.
gossipqueen gossipqueen 8 years
Worst case scenario....he turns psycho when he finds out and wants "retribution"...the "physical" kind...the YOU "laying on a ditch" kind...dramatic...yes...possible...yeah, it's happened.OH...and KARMA is a BITCH!:oy:
gossipqueen gossipqueen 8 years
Worst case scenario....he turns psycho when he finds out and wants "retribution"...the "physical" kind...the YOU "laying on a ditch" kind... dramatic...yes...possible...yeah, it's happened. OH...and KARMA is a BITCH! :oy:
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