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Sunday Confessional: I Regret Breaking Up With My Ex

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I broke it off with a guy that I completely fell for about two months ago because of gossips and misunderstandings about his ex-gf. I just found out he's over her and I miss him a lot, and I don't know how far I could go in persuing him again without being obvious that he's the one I badly want. The last time I texted him to start small talk he answered once and never responded back.

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vizslalvr vizslalvr 5 years
I'm with zabrow. Look, you effed up. You are insecure and allowed gossip to ruin an ostensibly otherwise good relationship (never mind that that is highly unlikely). You barely dated for the blink of an eye, and quite frankly, he has absolutely no reason to give you a second chance. Move on and take it as a lesson learned that you need to keep your relationships between you and your partner and not you, your partner, and the neighborhood gossips.
zabrow zabrow 5 years
Welp! I'll be the first to disagree. He'll hardly respond to your texts, so sitting him down & having a long talk doesn't really sound like an option. When you heard through whomever that he was still into his ex-girlfriend you dumped him instead of talking to him about it... It sounds like you two weren't very good at communicating to begin with. Since you only dated for a couple of months he's probably cutting his losses & moving on, which you should let him do. Just take this as a lesson in your next relationship to shut out gossip & outside opinions, and communicate with your partner instead of cutting & running prematurely.
Indianbutterfly Indianbutterfly 5 years
I agree with the above- just call him and tell him how you feel!
meowhubbs meowhubbs 5 years
i agree with both posts above. either write him a letter or just call him and tell him exactly how you're feeling. apologize and see what happens! be brave! good luck :)
ldy1lv ldy1lv 5 years
try sitting him down and telling him the truth. you'll be surprised how well that can work and you don't have to go through all the guessing games
deepu56 deepu56 5 years
dont worry about it.maybe its not too late to mend situations.try writing a letter to him how sorry u are about your misunderstanding and that u will never do it again.just mention how gr8 times u had together .and try not mentioning about how lonely u are feeling right now.that may give him the feeling that u are desperate.just pour out your love on the may of luck and take care
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