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Have You Ever Been in Love With More Than One Person?

In case you missed it, last night was the finale of The Bachelorette. Spunky Canadian Jillian Harris's quest to find love on a reality show came to an end as she had to choose between Kiptyn, Ed, and Reid. The episode was filled with tears and sighs from Jillian, who had fallen for all three of the guys! In the end she chose Ed and seemed pretty happy.


Anyone who goes on The Bachelorette to choose a soul mate among 30 eligible men runs the risk of falling in love with more than one of them (or none of them). But this could also happen to someone sans TV cameras and exotic dates. Have you ever been in love with more than one person at the same time?

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chloelouise93 chloelouise93 6 years
Yeah it's happened to me, not to long ago actually, but I don't see any of them any more, well for now!
dikke-kus dikke-kus 6 years
It happened to me once. It was a situation resulting in one distant friend and a close neighbor. I thought the situation sucked and I felt bad trying to make a decision. They both ramped up the stakes and competed with each other. You would think one would get pissed and walk away, but nope. Men like to win.
cherryblossom cherryblossom 6 years
I dunno i think that you can only be truly truly in love with on person but feel comonalities with other people, and feel sexual tension/ attraction with other people, its only natural at some point for most people i guess, we are animals after all.
mistwolf mistwolf 6 years
Poly and proud! Couldn't answer the poll as none applies. =)
tlsgirl tlsgirl 6 years
Yes, right now in fact. Lucky for me, I don't have to choose.
margokhal margokhal 6 years
Define being "in love". Personally, I've never experienced this, I've only been intensely attracted to people in rapid succession, but never at the same time. I believed at the time that I was in "love" when I wasn't, especially because the feelings persisted for *so long*. I think it's more lusting-erotic/attraction than love, in this situation. (I'm only speaking for myself and this situation; I believe the same sentiment could be applied to a lot more situations, but I can't say for sure).
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 6 years
Romantically? No. Of course, I'm only speaking for myself.
hypnoticmix hypnoticmix 6 years
Sure, nothing wrong with falling for qualities in multiple people it's not a deviant act it just happens. However at some point sooner rather than latter you have to make a conscious choice which one if a potential relationship is on the table.
Chrstne Chrstne 6 years
Truly, I don't think you can truly be "in love" with more than one person. Being in love means being able to give yourself fully (to me at least), and you cannot give yourself in whole to two (or more) people. So no, I have never loved two+ people in my life.
elizabethsosewn elizabethsosewn 6 years
sadly, yes. I was pretty young but it was love. I had never really stopped loving one guy (my first) and was with someone else, and having trouble in the relationship I was in. I guess you could argue that it doesn't count then, because I wasn't sure if I was IN love with him, but it still felt like I was. It was hard. What really made me resolve the situation was that I remembered that I was in a relationship with guy #2, and not just pining over him. So i worked out things between both of the guys, and now i am with neither! but i still love #1. I will always love him.
skigurl skigurl 6 years
not me. i do love this show though.
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