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WOULD YOU TAKE BACK A BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND WHO CHEATED ON YOU?

Sienna and Jude have been playing on again off again since his romp with Daisy, the nanny. It’s amazing how even the most beautiful women rationalize an affair. Do you think that you could you handle it?

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leslieroses leslieroses 9 years
what IS cheating? is it full-on sex? is it a kiss? is it an "office" flirtation? is it a lap dance? is it a fantasy of something that will likely never happen (aka - a REALLY hot date with brad pitt)? for me, cheating would be My Sweet looking for something that he felt he could never wonder and/or want to asked from me. i think cheating would be a broken part of our relationship. with this. if he did THIS, then it would be done for me. let him get off with a stripper, let him get off via internet porn even. just don't have it be something where his love for me waned for one second. my heart would be broken, for i am his and he is FOR ALWAYS MY SWEET. 10/14/2006
TNgirl TNgirl 9 years
I was in a relationship with this guy on and off for about 3 years. About a year into the relationship I found out that he was cheating on me with me a girl that we worked with. Unfortunately I was stupid enough to take him back even though he had cheated on me and everyone I knew hated him. I also knew that he was someone that I could never trust again and didn't see the relationship going anywhere. Since that I have vowed that I will never take back another cheater.
LaylaCams LaylaCams 9 years
With me it'd be about resentment and anger. Even if a friend lies to me, I can not bring myself to get over it, and it always gets in the way.
MissSixty1 MissSixty1 9 years
NEVER!!!!! I HAVE TO MUCH PRIDE AND DIGNITY TO TAKE BACK AN ASSHOLE. (i cant believe ppl would take that person back)....it drives me wild...no one has ever cheated on me before and never had to experience that but i know some girls that did and they took the asshole back..but ended up breaking up again bc he cheated...WHY CANT PPL SEE IT COMING AGAIN...WHY!!!???
bellstar bellstar 9 years
Who says the relationship must have been unhappy for a person to cheat? Maybe they just have wandering eyes (like me :P)
Nicadema Nicadema 9 years
Been there, tried it ONCE. It NEVER works. Most people simply cannot forgive, not if they really loved the person who betrayed them.
estahrox estahrox 9 years
Cheating is bad stuff. If someone is unhappy in a relationship, just leave! Don't get your kicks by hurting the other person. That's not fair!
eye173candy eye173candy 9 years
Once a cheater, always a cheater. " I Don't Respond To Trash, I Just Marry It "
Le-Luxe Le-Luxe 9 years
I always told myself that is ANY guy ever cheated on me, out the door. No second chances!
Padraigin Padraigin 9 years
no no no no no. No. no. just... no.
gracey gracey 9 years
So true Stella! I think I could forgive but forget? never. You need to trust and it wouldn't ever be there.
Naima Naima 9 years
I guess the real question should be, do you want to go to bed at night worrying about where your man is and who he's with? Personally a piece of mind means more than a piece of ass who can bring home plenty of diseases as well. Thanks but no thanks, I don't NEED anyone that badly.
katy-woo katy-woo 9 years
I've taken back a cheating boyfriend in the past, and I totally regret it, it just gave me more trouble and strife and heartache then I would have had to deal with had I just finished with him. If someone is unhappy enough in a relationship to cheat then the relationship might as well be over. If a person lacks the respect for their partner and isn't bothered about being faithful then they don't deserve to be in a relationship! Sat here thinking about it, it's very easy to say I wouldn't take back my current boyfriend if he were to cheat on me, but in practice I know it wouldn't be that easy!
abomb88 abomb88 9 years
No, I don't ever think I could do that. I wouldn't be able to deal with the pain and suspicion. It would eat me alive.
sexyeyes sexyeyes 9 years
It would be the hardest thing I ever have to deal with but it won't be easy to be able to trust him or even look at him without getting pissed at him. So I think I would b/c I love him with all my heart but for me its a 70% chance that I will forgive him but he will have to kiss my ass for the rest of his life!!! that's for sure
Stella10 Stella10 9 years
Once a cheater always a cheater!
ethiopian_princess ethiopian_princess 9 years
no, it would really never be the same, but it can be good. just never care free.
mom2 mom2 9 years
id probably make his life hell every single day after taking him back too :)
mom2 mom2 9 years
yeah, maybe with kids -but i think i would always have trust issues - would never be the same - - i would imagine?
ethiopian_princess ethiopian_princess 9 years
True, but if we had kids, I'd try therapy and what not. If I was just dating him, his butt would be on the street.
mom2 mom2 9 years
once a cheater...
dovima dovima 9 years
sure i already have b4
Faye16 Faye16 9 years
No, never.
team_aspartame team_aspartame 9 years
sorry i meant *paranoia
team_aspartame team_aspartame 9 years
I have a hard time trusting people and if they are 100% honest! I think that it would be really hard for me to take the person back since i trusted him! I wouldnt be able to believe him again, i would have paranois. ITs just the kind of person i am. ___________________________________________________ Who are YOUR fantasy 5?? http://teamsugar.com/user/team_aspartame/blog/23215
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