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Not Wanting to Move For Boyfriend

Sunday Confessional: I Don't Want to Move For Him

This week's confession comes from our anonymous Confession Booth group in the TrèsSugar Community. Weigh in with your advice below.

I have been going with BF for almost three years, two of which he has been living in another state. The problem is we don't see each other that often, we do text numerous times a day, talk on the phone, etc, but it's not exactly what either of us have in mind. 

To make matters worse, he has asked me a zillion times to move in with him and I really want to, but everytime the time gets close to actually do it, I back out. It has caused a lot of problems and has hurt him several times. He has nothing where he lives now. He has a house here, me, friends and me. I have my family, friends and a job here. He won't consider moving back for me although he has had several good job offers. Now we are broken up because of this. I love him very much but I just can't seem to make that move. And he won't make the move. So what should I do. I am miserable.

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