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What's the Average Amount of Time That Passes Between Meeting a Guy and Sleeping With Him?

What's the Average Amount of Time That Passes Between Meeting a Guy and Sleeping With Him?

In an effort to help the male readers of Maxim magazine understand us women a little better, they've asked me to help get you to take their survey about dating, sex, and relationships. Since these are our favorite topics of conversation, this is your chance to clue them in on what women really want: how we like to be treated, what our expectations are, and what their actions say to us — as we all know, some guys need a little direction! There are a bunch of really fun questions, so click here to take their survey and in the meantime answer one of the questions here — how long do you usually wait before sleeping with a guy after meeting him?

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khadeekiinsz khadeekiinsz 7 years
like 2 months
khadeekiinsz khadeekiinsz 7 years
like 2 months
calli-gurl calli-gurl 7 years
/wheres the option for over 2 years? or after marriage
Angela123 Angela123 7 years
what a lame survey..i wish they would let you choose more than one option for some of them (things you would never do? you can only pick facial OR peeing? wtf) but anyway i don't really have an average time...I've done the sex on the first date thing and the make him wait a month thing..depends on the situation i think! my current bf is actually my high school bf..we reunited after college..(aww, gag, i know) and he was my first! so technically he waited the longest :)
sparklestar sparklestar 7 years
Favourite body part on a man - WHERE IS THE OPTION FOR PENIS?
thelorax thelorax 7 years
Guess I better go take the survey so I can tilt the scales...
designerel designerel 7 years
Hmm after reading these comments I'm not gonna bother taking the survey. Yeah it really depends on the guy. I slept with my current bf on the second date and we've been going on 6 months now. Others I didn't sleep with at all, waited 3-4 months or so and one I slept with on the first date. It just depends on chemistry I think.
designerel designerel 7 years
Hmm after reading these comments I'm not gonna bother taking the survey.Yeah it really depends on the guy. I slept with my current bf on the second date and we've been going on 6 months now. Others I didn't sleep with at all, waited 3-4 months or so and one I slept with on the first date. It just depends on chemistry I think.
chow chow 7 years
depends on the guy
chow chow 7 years
depends on the guy
ilanac13 ilanac13 7 years
for myself - i typically wait a little bit before sleeping with someone but i can't say that it's ALWAYS been the case. with my fiance now, i told him that i wasn't going to sleep with him anytime soon (i.e. 6 months) yet that went out the door about 2 months after we started dating since i broke my knee and we got close really fast
elizabethsosewn elizabethsosewn 7 years
I took the full survey and most of the time was able to answer pretty correctly. I am glad i did now too, because guys MY age are reading maxim, and obviously most of the women here don't agree with my view points so at least the guys will be ready for ME :D
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 7 years
It completely depends on how often you see each other from the time you meet until the time you sleep together. If you met 3 weeks ago but only had one date it's totally different than meeting 3 weeks ago and going out almost every night. I have to get to know a person before I sleep with them so it doesn't matter how little or how long it takes to get to that point.
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 7 years
It completely depends on how often you see each other from the time you meet until the time you sleep together. If you met 3 weeks ago but only had one date it's totally different than meeting 3 weeks ago and going out almost every night. I have to get to know a person before I sleep with them so it doesn't matter how little or how long it takes to get to that point.
sw33tlovin sw33tlovin 7 years
it ranges. i used to have a bunch of rules, now i just wait until the respect is there and that they'll truly appreciate it. lol. when i'm ready, i'll probably wait a little while longer bc i like catching them off guard.
northofhere northofhere 7 years
I've only ever slept with my current boyfriend and we waited almost 3 months. I was 24 but don't regret a thing... we have the most amazing sex and it was entirely worth waiting for. That survey was ridiculous. Skin and penis aren't favorite body parts, but balls are? What?? You can only choose those porn options or "I hate all porn"? Jesus.
northofhere northofhere 7 years
I've only ever slept with my current boyfriend and we waited almost 3 months. I was 24 but don't regret a thing... we have the most amazing sex and it was entirely worth waiting for.That survey was ridiculous. Skin and penis aren't favorite body parts, but balls are? What?? You can only choose those porn options or "I hate all porn"? Jesus.
luckystar730 luckystar730 7 years
It depends on the person. I think, sleeping with someone on the first date does not necessarily deem you a slut, as some people may believe. It can be a beautiful thing. Practicing safe sex is of the upmost importance, and then after that, let your heart be your guide. After all, a girl's gotta eat.
Beastiegirl5 Beastiegirl5 7 years
I make myself wait a at least a month if I'm interested in having a relationship. Now, the (very) few times I just wanted a short something closer to FWB, I didn't wait as long.
Beastiegirl5 Beastiegirl5 7 years
I make myself wait a at least a month if I'm interested in having a relationship. Now, the (very) few times I just wanted a short something closer to FWB, I didn't wait as long.
weaver1 weaver1 7 years
i think every guy u met just thinks sex, male blood, so iv always waited over a mnth an found that while e waitin for the sex he gettin 2 no u. and when u give it up e finds ther more to u. give it up rite away, nowt else for him 2 no.
lilwildone1202 lilwildone1202 7 years
i slept with my husband after 2 hours... my other boyfriends ranged between 3-5 weeks...the other guys i was dating and then eventually slept with... well anywhere between 2-3 weeks... for some reason the casual ones where the ones i let loose faster (haha...literally...) i hate to say it but sex is always an important part of a relationship and if its bad i need to know right away before i get anymore invested
lilwildone1202 lilwildone1202 7 years
i slept with my husband after 2 hours...my other boyfriends ranged between 3-5 weeks...the other guys i was dating and then eventually slept with... well anywhere between 2-3 weeks... for some reason the casual ones where the ones i let loose faster (haha...literally...)i hate to say it but sex is always an important part of a relationship and if its bad i need to know right away before i get anymore invested
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