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What Happens at Bachelor Parties

Do You Want to Know What Goes Down at a Bachelor Party?

Whether he's the groom or just a friend, bachelor parties offer guys an excuse to engage in wild behavior that ranges from a few extra drinks to a long night at a strip club. While some women don't want their significant other entertaining strippers, pre-wedding ritual or not, others will give their guys a pass.

Still with a male vow of silence often sworn at bachelor parties, sometimes we don't even know what's involved. This can cause even the most laid-back girlfriend or fiancée to get curious. So I want to know: do you want to know?

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starbucks2 starbucks2 5 years
Anon, and don't we all know 97.45% of all statistics are made up on the spot. I'm sorry to hear you're so jaded based on some experiences...but I do believe more than 10% of he guys getting married are staying faithful to their fiances..
danakscully64 danakscully64 5 years
90% of the time... maybe in Vegas, but that's not all across the board. I would want to know, but not because I don't trust him, It's more about not keeping secrets. My guy and I tell each other everything, I wouldn't keep my bachelorette party from him.
danakscully64 danakscully64 5 years
90% of the time... maybe in Vegas, but that's not all across the board. I would want to know, but not because I don't trust him, It's more about not keeping secrets. My guy and I tell each other everything, I wouldn't keep my bachelorette party from him.
joriss joriss 5 years
I have to know what is going on specially with my bf. The strippers, dancing and drinking with them are fine with me. I mean, most of a bachelor parties do have them. They are part of the production. But sleeping with them is totally out of the question. And what she say (above me) is true that some of the guys friend may not like you. And i feel like i have to take control at least on that situation.
starbucks2 starbucks2 5 years
Exactly, postmodern. If you trust your fiance you trust him even with the hottest strippers around. If you don't trust him completely, you're really not ready to get married.I'd want to know what was going on, because I kinda care about him and like knowing how things went for him. Just like asking him how his day was at work I'd too ask him how his bachelor party went...
starbucks2 starbucks2 5 years
Exactly, postmodern. If you trust your fiance you trust him even with the hottest strippers around. If you don't trust him completely, you're really not ready to get married. I'd want to know what was going on, because I kinda care about him and like knowing how things went for him. Just like asking him how his day was at work I'd too ask him how his bachelor party went...
postmodernsleaze postmodernsleaze 5 years
The way I see it, if you can't even trust your fiance at his bachelor party, you shouldn't be getting married. That always drives me nuts.As far as a boyfriend attending someone else's bachelor party, I'm pretty laid back. I wouldn't worry. I would never be with someone I didn't trust. If I felt worried about a boyfriend attending a friend's bachelor party, I'd reconsider why I'm with him if I don't even trust him to have what is [usually] relatively harmless fun.
postmodernsleaze postmodernsleaze 5 years
The way I see it, if you can't even trust your fiance at his bachelor party, you shouldn't be getting married. That always drives me nuts. As far as a boyfriend attending someone else's bachelor party, I'm pretty laid back. I wouldn't worry. I would never be with someone I didn't trust. If I felt worried about a boyfriend attending a friend's bachelor party, I'd reconsider why I'm with him if I don't even trust him to have what is [usually] relatively harmless fun.
Soulduster Soulduster 5 years
I'd want to know just because I'd like to hear about his night out and not because I don't trust him.
GregS GregS 5 years
At mine, we didn't have dancers or anything. Just some porn and a lot of booze. The porn was forgotten, we played poker and drank a lot.It was fun.At my best friend's bachelor party we went to a strip club (topless) and ended up playing pool and drinking. The girls did get a few bucks, though.
GregS GregS 5 years
At mine, we didn't have dancers or anything. Just some porn and a lot of booze. The porn was forgotten, we played poker and drank a lot. It was fun. At my best friend's bachelor party we went to a strip club (topless) and ended up playing pool and drinking. The girls did get a few bucks, though.
Pistil Pistil 5 years
No. But my boyfriend is pretty tame.
Jmartens Jmartens 5 years
This story assumes that bachelorette parties aren't scandalous themselves...
ironmaiden22 ironmaiden22 5 years
I would want to know and not in a 'I don't trust my boyfriend so I need to know everything' kind of way. More like, 'how hot was the strippers and would they give me a lap dance too'. Haha. But like weffie's, my boyfriend is totally faithful and really honest so I would get the story.
weffie weffie 5 years
I would HAVE to know, because knowing my bf (and what he's like when he drinks) we'd have to start using condoms and get him tested for STDs pronto haha.... Luckily for me, he's very honest if not totally faithful, so I think I would get the true story. Plus, it probably wouldn't be THAT much worse than what I'd get up to that night anyway ;)
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