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Where Do You Stand? Announcing You're About to Orgasm

Where Do You Stand? Announcing You're About to Orgasm

Sex is a great way to connect with your partner and it's the ultimate expression of love, but let's face it, there's usually one goal in mind — to reach the big O! Couples spend a lot of time and energy figuring out how to please each other, so I'm wondering how you feel about announcing you're about to orgasm. Do you find it helpful to know when your partner is about to climax, or does it ruin the mood and the moment?


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stylinfabqueen stylinfabqueen 6 years
I think announcing isn't that bad. I personally would like to know if my partner is having an orgasm and in turn I tell if I am. Its very secure that we're pleasuring each other correctly.
dikke-kus dikke-kus 7 years
I dated this helicopter pilot once and during sex he said he was ready to come in for a landing. He thought it was sexy but I started to laugh in hysterics and I had to get up. So much for announcing. Beware of the partners state of mind before you decide to get creative.
lawdawg08 lawdawg08 7 years
I always announce, you should always announce...that way your partner will know what the tempo should be...(e.g., slower, faster, no change,etc.)
davetherave davetherave 7 years
This subject always makes me think of the dreaded movies where the women SCREAM that (it) is about to happen - WAY overkill! If "it" is about to happen, don't ruin the moment - let things take their course. And, as some have said, it could be a booster or killer to an ego if the other were to announce it. I like the old joke - "Saying - 'Oh, GOD! I'm (cumming)' doesn't mean you're going to church." LOL
Symphonee Symphonee 7 years
It varies. I usually orgasm more than a couple times during sex so sometimes I will tell and sometimes I won't. He never asks, he just knows. I only ask him when I am getting tired and he then knows to speed it up. He tells anyway though ;)
glamabie24 glamabie24 7 years
i agree with designerel! ^_^ i often tell him when i'm about to ya know... and he doesn't... but he loves it when i do that... makes him ask for more.. ^_^
MegN MegN 7 years
No hard and fast way for me, I don't normally announce simply because for me it can be tricky to tell if I'm going to go over the edge or not, and I'd hate be to like "I'm about to" and then not, because it probably isn't his fault, or really nothing wrong at all. I don't mind either way if they announce, unless it's oral, in which case I think it should be mandatory. Have learned however that not all guys think it's as important to warn when you're in that position so I make a point of telling them it is now.
designerel designerel 7 years
I don't really care either way. He doesn't announce it but I do. It's not really necessary for me to announce it either because he can tell when I'm close, but I do it anyway :)
RaCheer RaCheer 7 years
My key words are "Right there" and "I'm about to". I think those work pretty well.
Hiding55 Hiding55 7 years
Sometimes I do sometimes I don't. I'll always tell him to "keep doing that" when I'm close and he gets the hint. I hate being asked if I'm close or if I came yet. Ruins everything! My bf will always tell me when he's about to cum and it's almost always like he's asking permission to see if it's ok or if I want more. He's so cute.
Jeny Jeny 7 years
ah he loves it when i tell him, it makes him happy and he wants to feel it.. so i tell him lol
Modus-Vivendi Modus-Vivendi 7 years
I always say so so he knows to keep doing what he's doing!
juicebox07 juicebox07 7 years
There's a difference between saying if you're close, and asking your partner if he/she is close. In my opinion, being asked if I'm close is a bit of a mood killer. It just annoys me.
VicVicVictooriaa VicVicVictooriaa 7 years
he always tells me when he's getting close, but I can also tell because of the way he scrunches his face and stuff. I tell him when he seems curious or if we are in a really good rhythm that if he changed i would murder him. Also, I find it really hot when he tells me all he wants to do is watch me orgasm. So like he doesnt ask, but sometimes he kind of begs for it to happen. im a little hot and bothered right now haha
TidalWave TidalWave 7 years
i would kill a guy if he asked me if i was close. wow. i can't even imagine that! I tend to think that a guy can tell when i'm getting that excited but I have orgasmed before in a way that I thought was noticeable, but the guy wasn't sure if I had or not - so I usually say if I'm going to or if I am. I hope it's not a mood killer, I never thought about that before. I definitely like it if the guy tells me. I usually can tell (because he stops moving) but there have been times where i just wasn't sure and I refuse to ask!
ThePerfectScore ThePerfectScore 7 years
I love that part especially when its bad and i want the sex to be over with already.
a_mama a_mama 7 years
I like to announce when I am getting close, just so he knows not to change anything! Nothing worse than being moments away and having him slow down or want to switch positions. I have told my husband I want to hear more from him, he is so darn quiet!
macchiatolove macchiatolove 7 years
my bf seems to like it if I tell him, so I do. He tells me if I'm performing oral, and obviously this is very much appreciated in my opinion, LOL
chatondeneige chatondeneige 7 years
I don't mind hearing it, but I don't usually announce it, and I don't like being asked.
Mousuke Mousuke 7 years
I can tell when he's getting there and vice versa, however, sometimes it's sexy (with the right delivery) to hear him beg for it. It also gives you something to strive for if you're getting tired. =P
khadeekiinsz khadeekiinsz 7 years
Is that angelina jolie in the pic?
Sun_Sun Sun_Sun 7 years
LOOOOOOOOL @ jacrabbit84 :P teehee
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