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Where Do You Stand: Sexual Satisfaction

Though some women are unable to achieve an orgasm, others are blessed with the ability to have multiple. And while vaginal sex can sometimes provide enough stimulation, often direct clitoral contact is necessary. In other words, women are created differently, and of course, it follows suit that the definition of sexual satisfaction varies from woman to woman. We all have different preferences, too! So where do you stand when it comes to reaching sexual satisfaction without an orgasm? Is an orgasm the real culmination of a sexual experience? Or do you think it has more to do with arousal and intimacy?

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Girl101 Girl101 6 years
I usually reach the O but not always. He always does. Sometimes I am just tired and I want to get him satisfied so I can go to sleep. If that happens, he usually has some morning wood for me if I want it.
Mousuke Mousuke 6 years
I'm not easy to orgasm, but my man knows how I operate and never fails to make me get off every time! So I've never experienced sex without orgasm. However, I only get off through vaginal intercourse (my clit does nothing for me), so going down on me is kinda pointless...
Rebecca14916991 Rebecca14916991 7 years
mmm... I can get off either way. It depends on what we're doing as to which one I have and in what order. Dry hump? Clit. Quickie/fingering? Vaginal. Sex with me on top? Both! :P
Frank-y-Ava Frank-y-Ava 7 years
My partner and I are still working on it. We kiss which really is good enough for me, I enjoy the stimulation and he enjoys the sex. Not crazy about the sex yet but practice makes perfect.
alexask alexask 7 years
ok..i will. gosh you have to tell guys everything
darkangel2305 darkangel2305 7 years
alexask if he's not doing it... ask for it ;)
alexask alexask 7 years
awh man i have no idea what it's like to have those crazy panting orgasms. well i guess i just kind of started. i think foreplay is an important (missing) event in my sex life, despite him being older enough to know that
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 7 years
I can definitely have a good time without orgasming. Sometimes I finish myself off after if I feel like I need to. Sometimes I just collapse in bliss cause it was so much fun.
smistasan smistasan 7 years
I think it's more about the intimacy and pleasing one another. I've had some great sex without having an orgasm, and sometimes it's just as satisfying to make sure he's thoroughly pleasured.
thelorax thelorax 7 years
Hate you all!!!!!! Haha j/k. I'm still working on it :-\
ahgerly ahgerly 7 years
have to admit that me and my current boy are sexaholics but the thing is i dont cum that frequent and sometimes i will have to lie or even put up a "cum" show in order to please him :( well, i find his satisfaction is way more important than mine...so who cares~
caryatid caryatid 7 years
i'm reading BONK by Mary Roach, which is all about the study of sex, and apparently the distance between the vagina and the clit is indicative of whether or not you can orgasm from vaginal intercourse... look it up, it's interesting!
xoxoxx xoxoxx 7 years
I haven't orgasmed from vaginal intercourse, but the intimacy shared with Beau is more than enough for me. He's horrendously selfless though, and makes sure that I'm satisfied!
Emiily Emiily 7 years
I can cum vaginally and by rubbing my clit. I don't need clitoral stimulation to cum thank God. Sex is amazing all ways. I love it, I'm satisfied.
zombielove zombielove 7 years
foreplay gets me off more than the actual deed. im usually bored through sex. haha
DarlingDA DarlingDA 7 years
I can come quick when my bf goes down and me, and pretty quick during sex, but I have to use my hand. My boyfriend actually starts rubbing me if I'm not, because he likes to watch. Since it gets him going, it gets me going, and it ends well for both of us! Although sometimes we both get winded and have to stop for a water break.
CHUBSTAAA CHUBSTAAA 7 years
LOL darkangel2305, I am the same way. I never experienced an orgasm prior to my current boyfriend. He rocks my socks! :P He makes sure I orgasm before himself almost everytime - teehee!
lauraxtc lauraxtc 7 years
When I was younger I had a hard time reaching an orgasm but now I can. Especially with my bf that I have been with for 6 years. He knows exactly what to do, and how to push me deeper against him. I need deep penetration and clitoris stimulation to reach an orgasm. It feels so good once I go. I feel so weak, its my only addiction. Reaching Climax. hehe.
darkangel2305 darkangel2305 7 years
I am finally very sexually satisfied. I love sex with my current boyfriend. He literally rocks my world. He called me a hornball the other day because I always want it ;)
Sporky Sporky 7 years
I consider myself very lucky, it's never been a problem for me to orgasm during pretty much any kind of sex. I have to admit I have to try a bit harder since my hysterectomy, my libido has definitely dropped a bit, but that's a small price to pay for no more pain.
designerel designerel 7 years
i'm one of those that needs clitoral stimulation to come. i wish so hard that i can come the other way but i just can't! but honestly, sex in general feels so good that orgasm is not that important to me.
simplyfab87 simplyfab87 7 years
I more for arousal and intimacy. I've never had an orgasm, it kills my bf but I don't really care that much to have one. If i happens it happens but the sex is amazing either way.
Lovely_1 Lovely_1 7 years
I dunno... Sometimes, when my bf and I are making out and have really passioniate sex I can come so easily! It just feels so good and so right. But when we have quickies...the rush, the feeling, the experiance...it makes me come quick with him too!
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