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If So Many Great Guys Are Out There — How Do You Find Them?

This question comes from All the Single Ladies in our TrèsSugar Community. Feel free to add your advice in the comments!

Ladies — I know we're all sick of hearing the phrase "there are so many great guys, just get out there"... at least I am.

I've heard every variation from every acquaintance, colleague, friend, family member, and blog reader.

I've taken language classes, gotten both an undergraduate and master's degree, and go to work every day with eye makeup on.  Still, no dice.  So I'm taking it to you: Where have you found men?  Where have you found Ben Affleck quality men (I'm using Ben Affleck as today's example of what-to-look-for since I'm not in a settling kind of mood tonight, and he's (at least as far as I can tell) a genuinely good guy — and that's what I'm after) ? 

I don't believe in settling, but here in suburbia (oh yeah, did I forget to mention that part), there don't seem to be many (read: any) men anywhere near hitting the mark of "worth spending an evening on."

Thoughts? 

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