POPSUGAR Love Sex Which Came First? Orgasm Alone, With a Vibrator, or With a Partner by DearSugar 2/03/09 0 Shares Like us on Facebook Sign up for our daily newsletter > Follow us on Pinterest I talk a lot about sex and how to have better, more consistent orgasms. And as we all know, getting there happens differently for all of us. So what about your very first orgasm? How did the magic happen for you the first time around? Source Read More Which Came FirstVibratorOrgasmSexLove And Sex Sex 9 Things No One Tells You About Falling in Love With Your Best Friend I Used to Be Sex Positive, but I've Lost My Mojo 26 Cozy Date Ideas For Lazy Lovers Watch 35 of the Sexiest Country Music Videos Ever Made POPSUGAR, the #1 independent media and technology company for women. Where more than 75 million women go for original, inspirational content that feeds their passions and interests. Get Inspired With Our Living Newsletter Personalize Food DIY Home Tech Love and Sex Vegetarian Sign up with facebook or By signing up, I agree to the Terms and to receive emails from POPSUGAR. Allytta 6 years yeap, "not yet" answer is missing. i have a friend who is still searching for hers (after having like a dozen of sex partners) and recently i coached her on self orgasms ;) potterlove 6 years Myself. Back in the beginning of high school...or was it the end of middle school? I know, I know, a little early. I was sensitive? :) a-million-suns 6 years I'm with honeybrown Symphonee 6 years I had the first one by my self back in high school. I diddled a lot. I had a vibrator as soon as I turned 18. I am lucky enough to have the big O everytime I hve sex. 95% of the time he does it and the other 5%, I whip out the bunny and start the magic. RustyAngel73 6 years I can orgasm with a partner or vibrator, but not just by myself, which is very annoying! Miss-Senorita 6 years With a partner I was to lazy to masterbate still am. LuvLeoDiCaprio 6 years Alone, young teenager didn't realize it was orgasm probably because they were tiny ones. cheer4veggies 6 years i wish i could be invited to the O club... :( LeChatonNoir 6 years there's another level ---there are two types of orgasms. (depending on which g spot you're stimulating) but anyhow, I got both of them on my own (the first in middle school, the next in college) and i'm still trying to get the second to happen with someone else on a regular basis. aerogirlk 6 years myself of course when i was a teenager, then i became addictied to orgasms :P but come on girls, i mean there lot of things that your partner can do to give you a pleasent orgasm not only with intercourse if you know what i mean. a guy who doesn't care about giving pleasure to his partner it's a selfish, selfcentered person - drop him i he cant give you pleasure! bbkf 6 years With my very first boyfriend. I was a lucky girl ;-) simplyfab87 6 years I was thinking the same thing, herp_mommy. Not everyone has been invited to the O club. ThePerfectScore 6 years alll by myself!!!!! Omg I remember my first Big Orgasm. It was totally surprising b/c I had been masturbating before and it felt good, but once I got that Big O and my legs were shaking I knew that would be my life long goal! haha It's only happened once with a partner... :( 0fashionqueen 6 years I love myself, but I love being loved by the opposite sex of my choice even more. tglynn 6 years where's the "hasn't happened yet" option? lolak 6 years Sadly I've never met a man who can keep up with my trusty buddy. Muirnea 6 years Me, myself, and I. lauraxtc 6 years Partner. Yup! I am actually mastering my orgasm skill alone. Just in case I ever need em. lol. Hiding55 6 years Me, myself and I all the way. I was like 13 or 14 when I figured it out through self exploration. HoneyBrown1976 6 years It was by myself. Praise hot water in a bathtub! I was a teenager. divinedebris 6 years Alone, some time when I was a teenager, can't remember. bluepuppybites 6 years I guess I'm one of the lucky ones who doesn't need alot of extra attention to reach an orgasm. I didn't even own a vibrator until my bachelorette party when I received one as a gift. I've used it once. Lovely_1 6 years Oh by myself! Like when I was 12 I think I figured it out!