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Who's the Cuddler in Your Relationship?

Who's the Cuddler in Your Relationship?

You don't want to deny a cuddler. Because if he's not getting it from you, he'll go elsewhere. Like into the seedy underbelly of affection known as cuddle parties, and risk bringing home a CTD (cuddling transmitted disease) like bedbugs.

Most men don't advertise themselves as cuddlers anywhere off Craigslist, but I've never met a boyfriend who didn't want to cuddle morning, noon, and night. Sometimes twice! Dave Johns, a self-professed cuddler, is conflicted: his relentless need for affection challenges his manhood because, as he put it, "real men don't cuddle." But I think men love to cuddle — maybe more than women? — and they just don't like to talk about it.

Since there is a cuddle hormone, we can assume some people are more prone to cuddling than others. So, tell me, who initiates it the most in your relationship?

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bluesarahlou bluesarahlou 5 years
Most nights, we cuddle more with the body pillow between us than with eachother. :)
MissSushi MissSushi 5 years
lol, my husband is definitely the cuddler. He wants to fall asleep glued to each other, and I'm kind of hands off.
snarkypants snarkypants 5 years
i love to cuddle, but my bf LOVES to cuddle.
GTCB GTCB 5 years
Between my wife and I, I'm the cuddler.
RoaringSilence RoaringSilence 5 years
We both love it. I often get cuddled for long periods of time even while I'm cooking or something haha.
RoaringSilence RoaringSilence 5 years
We both love it. I often get cuddled for long periods of time even while I'm cooking or something haha.
JanetG0307 JanetG0307 5 years
i'm all for cuddling for about 10 minutes. but after that, i'm done and ready to get on with the day.
lickety-split lickety-split 5 years
I'm usually the one who initiates it, but he's all for it once I do. Maybe just our pattern( ?)
totygoliguez totygoliguez 5 years
To be honest, I'm mire if a kisser. I do like to cuddle though
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