So your man doesn't hit the strip clubs every weekend, but what if he goes with the boys every once in a while? If it's something you don't like or even understand, you're not alone, but talking about it with him will surely make a big difference. Here are some points you can cover.
- Ask him why he likes going to strip clubs so you can get a better understanding of his rationale. Maybe he goes so he can spend guy time with his buddies, or maybe it's a way to have fun and relieve stress.
- Explain how it makes you feel, that you're worried he may be more sexually interested in these other women than he is you. This is a good way to find out if there's anything about your sex life that bothers him or if he wishes things were different.
- Ask him if it's one of his sexual fantasies to see a woman strip down and dance for him, then ask if he'd be interested in you stripping for him instead!
Dear's Advice:Remember that boys will be boys and just because your significant other enjoys hitting the strip club every once in a while, it doesn't necessarily mean he's any less attracted to you. With that said, if talking about it doesn't make you feel more secure, or if he's not willing to see things from your perspective and make some changes, you might want to reconsider your relationship.