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Women's Common Complaint: He Won't Perform Oral Sex

Women's Common Complaint: He Won't Perform Oral Sex

Certainly some of us are lucky enough to have a partner who's good at oral sex, but unfortunately that doesn't always means he's so inclined to do it. If that's the case, here are a few tips to get your man to pleasure you.

  • Ask for it. Be bold, take charge, and tell him exactly what you want. Say it in your own sweet way.
  • If you don't want to have to ask for it, place yourself in a position (literally) that communicates exactly what you want. Shift your body and his kisses appropriately to move him in the right direction.
  • You can even make it a little game by taking turns with one another or by incorporating oral sex into something new that you're experimenting with.
  • When it does happen, make sure that he knows how good he makes you feel. If he believes that he's good at it, he'll be more likely to want to do it in the future.

Ideally, it should be fun for both of you, so work together to come up with ways to make it more pleasurable for him. Got your own tips? Share them in the comments below.


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