POPSUGAR Love Relationships Would You Rather Be the Dumper or Dumpee? Dumper or Dumpee: Who Would You Rather Be? by Tres Community 5/28/10 0 Shares Like us on Facebook This post comes from the Wake Up to a Breakup group in our TrèsSugar Community. Dumper or dumpee? We interviewed a few women to see what they had to say about breaking up. Have a breakup story of your own? Post it to Wake Up to a Breakup, and check out what else is happening in the Sugar Community. Maybe we'll feature you on TrèsSugar. Read More Wake Up To A BreakupBreakupsCommunityRelationshipsLove And Sex Relationships 85 Types of Kisses Everyone Should Experience at Least Once 12 Questions We Have About the Most Controversial Season of The Bachelorette 13 Times Relationship Red Flags Are Actually Dealbreakers 14 of Amy Schumer's Most Relatable Sketches Get inspired with our daily newsletter Sign up for our daily newsletter. Vegetarian DIY Home Love and Sex Tech Food Sign up with wakeuptoabreakup 4 years Thanks for all your comments! It's pretty clear that whether you are the "dumpee" or "dumper" ... break ups aren't very fun. Bettye-Wayne 4 years Dumper, I suppose, but really it's all about ending it respectfully. There's a couple guys I dated and we run into each other now and we're friendly and play catch up for a minute, and there's a couple guys I would either snub or punch... one I would call the cops because of a restraining order. ManiMartinixo 4 years I'd rather dump because usually the people I dump I have few feelings for so don't feel as bad as being dumped. GlowingMoon 4 years Both are hard. bohokitty 4 years It sucks either way. I've been the one to dump pretty much all of my boyfriends. I've been dumped once and if the guy means something to you it's hard regardless of which end you end up on. I don't get why some ppl think it matters who broke up with who. totygoliguez 4 years I rather dump than be dump.