POPSUGAR Love Relationships Would You Rather Be the Dumper or Dumpee? Dumper or Dumpee: Who Would You Rather Be? by Tres Community 5/28/10 0 Shares Like us on Facebook Sign up for our daily newsletter > Follow us on Pinterest This post comes from the Wake Up to a Breakup group in our TrèsSugar Community. Dumper or dumpee? We interviewed a few women to see what they had to say about breaking up. Have a breakup story of your own? Post it to Wake Up to a Breakup, and check out what else is happening in the Sugar Community. Maybe we'll feature you on TrèsSugar. Read More Wake Up To A BreakupBreakupsCommunityRelationshipsLove And Sex Relationships 7 Signs of a Woman Who Will Never Stop Loving You 39 Mother-Daughter Tattoos 10 Traits of an Awesome Girlfriend (According to Men) 100+ Gifts the Woman in Your Life Will Fall Head Over Heels For POPSUGAR, the #1 independent media and technology company for women. Where more than 75 million women go for original, inspirational content that feeds their passions and interests. Get Inspired With Our Living Newsletter Personalize Tech Love and Sex DIY Home Food Vegetarian Sign up with facebook or By signing up, I agree to the Terms and to receive emails from POPSUGAR. wakeuptoabreakup 5 years Thanks for all your comments! It's pretty clear that whether you are the "dumpee" or "dumper" ... break ups aren't very fun. Bettye-Wayne 5 years Dumper, I suppose, but really it's all about ending it respectfully. There's a couple guys I dated and we run into each other now and we're friendly and play catch up for a minute, and there's a couple guys I would either snub or punch... one I would call the cops because of a restraining order. ManiMartinixo 5 years I'd rather dump because usually the people I dump I have few feelings for so don't feel as bad as being dumped. GlowingMoon 5 years Both are hard. bohokitty 5 years It sucks either way. I've been the one to dump pretty much all of my boyfriends. I've been dumped once and if the guy means something to you it's hard regardless of which end you end up on. I don't get why some ppl think it matters who broke up with who. totygoliguez 5 years I rather dump than be dump.