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Would You and Your Partner Be Into Swinging?

Are you and your partner a little bored in the bedroom and need to spice things up? Have you ever thought about swinging?


Swinging might not be what you think it is - it's when a married or committed couple engages in any kind of sexual activity with another couple (who's also into swinging), multiple couples, or a single individual (threesome). It could involve kissing, oral sex, or sex while one partner watched their significant other with someone else - or vice versa, or 2 couples completely swapping partners.


You never know - seeing your man with another woman, and letting him see you with another man may be a real turn on. It may even make you appreciate your partner even more.


There is no jealousy involved, only openness in expanding and exploring your own sexual relationship. Swinging couples have been known to say that their sexual experiences with others has strengthened the connection they feel with their partner. They also say it makes their own sex life more exciting and that their overall relationship much stronger.


So what do you think....

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calli- calli- 5 years
This is, completely outrageous.I could never go through with it, let alone even think of it.Same goes for my guy, he can't ever think of sharing me or himself with anyone else.It might not be cheating if both are okay with it but it goes against everything that I stand for.I can't bear to see him with someone else, and it's the same with him.We are happy with our sex life and as for spicing it up, I'm sure that there are plenty of other ways without including other people.I don't think I can even TALK about my guy being with someone else or me being with someone else, even for fun.As for ^,It's not being closed minded. It's about SOME people not being able to share their partner cause they love them so much.
calli- calli- 5 years
This is, completely outrageous. I could never go through with it, let alone even think of it. Same goes for my guy, he can't ever think of sharing me or himself with anyone else. It might not be cheating if both are okay with it but it goes against everything that I stand for. I can't bear to see him with someone else, and it's the same with him. We are happy with our sex life and as for spicing it up, I'm sure that there are plenty of other ways without including other people. I don't think I can even TALK about my guy being with someone else or me being with someone else, even for fun. As for ^, It's not being closed minded. It's about SOME people not being able to share their partner cause they love them so much.
calli-gurl calli-gurl 8 years
Hell no! i think that if you love someone, u wouldnt even think of being with someone else and that u shouldnt even consider sharing ure partner.
Pheefs Pheefs 8 years
No Way!!What if they person you were "swinging it" with was bad in bed?All that build up for a letdown?Or worse yet!What if it was the best you ever had??How are you gonna go home after that?
Pheefs Pheefs 8 years
No Way!! What if they person you were "swinging it" with was bad in bed? All that build up for a letdown? Or worse yet! What if it was the best you ever had?? How are you gonna go home after that?
honey31 honey31 8 years
Down right sinful!
honey31 honey31 8 years
Down right sinful!
thexxnewxromance thexxnewxromance 8 years
Man, i have jealousy issues. And the thought of some girl all over my boyfriend makes me want to stab a girl.haha. My brother and his wife however are swingers and they are so happy together and it works for them. So I'm not against it, but I could never do it.
aluna86jh aluna86jh 9 years
I feel like the odd woman out. If both people are willing to do it and under certain conditions then yeah why not. I can't say I'm ever going to do it but it sounds kind of hot actually.
paulinhadrp paulinhadrp 9 years
This is the first Dear Sugar post that I found inappropriate... it is totally outrageous to suggest something so trashy and ew.. . come on, is there anything more disrespectful of a relationship?
shini shini 9 years
its a pure fantasy that shouldn't really be made real. especially if you had a serious relationship.. for my relationship with my bf, never.
yoan190 yoan190 9 years
I don't think we would make it. I couldn't imagine myself touch other man, and my husband is also not a kind of it. We watched it in a movie, and he has that disgusted look when he saw it.
Schaianne Schaianne 9 years
So why bother with being in a relationship if you're not going to be monogamous? Totally against my beliefs and ethics.
Pokemyhontas Pokemyhontas 9 years
Nope.
Pokemyhontas Pokemyhontas 9 years
Nope.
demeter demeter 9 years
Never! I would never in a million years do that!
LadyP LadyP 9 years
No, I really don't think so! My husband and I are perfectly happy with having sex, just the two of us! lol
screammylungzout screammylungzout 9 years
no no no. i dont share.
screammylungzout screammylungzout 9 years
no no no. i dont share.
dinogirl dinogirl 9 years
I think most people would obsess over wondering if their partner found the other person more enjoyable.....I know I could never go through with it, and my husband feels the same way.
kendalheart kendalheart 9 years
I could never handle it but I don't think it's cheating when both partners agree to it so I didn't select anything because I would have said "other".
vmruby vmruby 9 years
No.....I couldn't even imagine my husband being fine with me having sex with a strange man and i know it's not ok with me vice versa with him either.
princess_eab princess_eab 9 years
I'm not necessarily against it (none of my business what others do) but it would be TERRIBLE for us. One of our similarities is intense jealousy.
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