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You Asked: When I Have Sex, I Feel Like I Have to Pee!

Dear Sugar--

During intercourse, when I get ready to orgasm, I feel like I have to urinate and I have to stop because I'm scared I'm gonna wet the bed. Is that a normal feeling???

--Unsatisified and Frustrated

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Dear Unsatisified and Frustrated--

We've all been there honey. The thing is, if your bladder is full, you'll feel like you have to pee. The pressure and the movement doesn't help any, so my number one suggestion is to make sure you take a visit to the ladies' room and relieve yourself before things get hot and heavy.

If you have tried peeing before sex, and you still feel like you need to wee, then you may be experiencing what many women crave - female ejaculation. If your G-spot is stimulated in just the right way, this can lead to an earth-shattering orgasm. For some women, G-spot stimulation can lead to an emission of a clear liquid believed to have come from the Skene's gland inside the uretha. It's NOT urine, but rather female ejaculate. The fluid may trickle or spurt out. It may be a few drops or a puddle. It can happen before, during, or after ejaculation.

So the next time you have sex, if you are sure your bladder is empty, and your partner is stimulating your G-spot, let the passion take you to the place so many women strive. Good luck!


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