I know that all women should swoon when their partner lights some candles to try and set the mood, but since I'm a fan of total darkness, I think sex by candlelight is a little too much. It's actually kind of a distraction for me, because I find myself worrying that some candle will get knocked over and start a major fire. Talk about a mood killer.
So what do you think? Does making love with the flickering of candles stir romance and passion for you? Does it turn you on or are you just not into it?