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Your Partner Cheats: Do You Want to Know or Not?

It's (unofficially) cheating week on TrèsSugar! You have weighed in on a Christian woman's confession that she cheated on her husband, and you've revealed whether or not you have ever cheated.

Everyone has an opinion on whether or not, if you cheated, you should tell your significant other or spare him and keep it to yourself. But I wonder if you'd want to know if your partner cheated on you. Is it important for you to know so you can decide whether or not to forgive, or is ignorance bliss?

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staple-salad staple-salad 6 years
I'd want to know. Cheating is a 99% of the time deal breaker for me, but if the situation didn't look like something that could happen again AND my guy told me about it, then I might consider just giving him a strike.And if my friends found out, I'd want them to tell me straight away before I wasted more of my life with someone it wasn't going to work out with.
staple-salad staple-salad 6 years
I'd want to know. Cheating is a 99% of the time deal breaker for me, but if the situation didn't look like something that could happen again AND my guy told me about it, then I might consider just giving him a strike. And if my friends found out, I'd want them to tell me straight away before I wasted more of my life with someone it wasn't going to work out with.
nyxmoxie nyxmoxie 6 years
I would definitely leave if a bf or husband ever cheated on me but I would want to know.
cordata cordata 6 years
But of course, I'd want NO ONE to know. It would be too humiliating if everyone else knew.
cordata cordata 6 years
If I knew, I'd never forgive. So, perhaps no.
Autumns_Elegy Autumns_Elegy 6 years
I'd want to know if he cheated, why, how far and with whom before I did anything. Some things I could forgive (for example someone kissing him) but some things I don't think I ever could.
chelseacbboyles chelseacbboyles 6 years
I would want to know because if it meant something than I shouldn't be with that person, if it didn't mean something than MAYBE my significant other could prove that to me and one day earn my trust back, and I would ESPECIALLY want to know if I was the only one in the dark. The worst situations are those when someone in a relationship is cheating or has cheated and everyone around them knows except the spouse but no one feels it is "their job" to tell the person - they end up looking like a fool and that is not fair.
PinkNC PinkNC 6 years
I can't believe that 39 people DON'T want to know. I would want to know everything that he's doing. When your other half cheats on you then he is doing more than breaking your heart, he could be passing you a disease.
pippins_halfling pippins_halfling 6 years
I'd want to know, even if it would kill me inside.
Love-and-Sex Love-and-Sex 6 years
Yes, sweetpea! I noted that myself! ;)
sweetpeabrina sweetpeabrina 6 years
I guess cheating week goes hand in hand with singles week? :)
sham28 sham28 6 years
Cheating = Deal-breaker. Always. Period.
Briandiesel Briandiesel 6 years
I honestly think that I would know, rather I'm told or not. There has to be tell-tale signs.
RockAndRepublic RockAndRepublic 6 years
I would have to know.
RockAndRepublic RockAndRepublic 6 years
I would have to know.
kurniakasih kurniakasih 6 years
I want to know. And as tough as it will be, I'd be divorcing my hub if this happened. Another thing is it is important to know in manner of health, we don't know what kind of STI your cheating spouse can bring into your life (beside the emotional matter).
kurniakasih kurniakasih 6 years
I want to know. And as tough as it will be, I'd be divorcing my hub if this happened.Another thing is it is important to know in manner of health, we don't know what kind of STI your cheating spouse can bring into your life (beside the emotional matter).
ali321 ali321 6 years
Cheating really hurts and it would be hard to go through, but I wouldn't want my love to be a lie. Trust is a huge thing for me. If someone cheats and then keeps it from me that's not the type of character I want in my life.
oohsexypenguin oohsexypenguin 6 years
I'd want to know, definitely. It should be MY choice whether or not to continue the relationship, not the cheater's.
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 6 years
I would want to know, too.Chances are, our marriage would end.
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 6 years
I would want to know, too. Chances are, our marriage would end.
Pistil Pistil 6 years
I'd want to know, so I could kick his ass to the curb.Some relationships might survive it, but I don't think I could endure it. I wouldn't care to.
Pistil Pistil 6 years
I'd want to know, so I could kick his ass to the curb. Some relationships might survive it, but I don't think I could endure it. I wouldn't care to.
MissSushi MissSushi 6 years
I'd want to know.. in a normal give and take relationship a cheating spouse isn't a slur on your character. It was their choice to cheat, and as hard as it would be at first, i want to know so i can walk away, immediately. There's no reason to blame yourself for their lack of respect and unfaithfulness.
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