Your roommate has been gushing about the new guy she’s been dating for a couple of weeks. She hasn’t said much about him except that she’s smitten so you’re really excited to meet him when she brings him to a group get-together. The moment they get there, and you see him for the first time, you’re absolutely shocked since it turns out that you already know him. Would it be worse if…
This: You’ve had a secret crush on him for years? He’s your ideal guy in every way but he’s always had a girlfriend, which has always broken your heart. Apparently the new heartbreaker is your roommate.
Or . . .
That: You absolutely cannot stand him? He was one of those guys that you vowed never to spend another moment talking to if you could help it. He’s pompous, mean, and now, dating your roommate.