The glitter-lipped ladies of Red Hots Burlesque filled me in on the sexy side of reception entertainment. Hiring burlesque dancers for a reception performance is one way to titillate your guests, but go the extra mile by having them coordinate your garter toss (especially fun if it's a suprise for your betrothed). They said they're currently working with a bride to coordinate her fan dance garter toss — complete with a sexy outfit change and striptease! But I'd save the sequin nipple tassels for the wedding night . . .