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3 Tips for Teaching Your Kids to Dress Themselves

3 Tips for Teaching Your Kids to Dress Themselves

Should you let your three-year-old waltz out the door wearing a purple tutu, a polka dot sweater, and green galoshes? Many moms wonder when to relinquish some control over their kids' outfit choices, and where to draw boundaries. To help you navigate this kids' clothing dilemma, we polled our top Kids' Style bloggers and received some great tips! 

While interest in clothing choices develops at different ages for different children, many moms say they began giving clothing control to their kids somewhere between age 2-4. As TheScandivanianMum, who blogs at Little Scandinavian, recalls: "They were around 2 years old when they suddenly had strong opinions about what to wear, like their favourite nightie to a party, bright red tights on a hot summer day and summer sandals in the middle of a snowy winter."

Even at such a young age, moms like Citlalli Rodriguez, of the blog Color Land, believe encouraging wardrobe creativity is healthy: "I try to respect her decisions, children have their own style, are creative and I especially love the way they mix different patterns and colors...The most important is to respect our kids own decisions, they need to feel comfortable and happy wearing their outfits, so ....just keep it simple and let your kids have fun dressing up!!!"


Still, while many moms are supportive of kids' personal style, they still recommend some simple tips for setting boundaries:

1. Limit What's Available

Limit which clothing is visible to your child, suggests TheScandivanianMum: "Clear out seasonal clothes and shoes, away in boxes and out of sight. Keep dressing up clothes away, with the toys. Keep swimwear with the towels. Clothes that are too big need to be away, in your wardrobe perhaps. And the clothes they have outgrown must go."

In a similar vein, Celina Bailey of Petit à Petit and Family recommends controlling the options available through your purchases: "I will fill their closet with items of my choice and then they can choose what they want to wear."

2. Offer Choices

Courtney of Kids Fashion Review is one of several moms who suggest offering a few outfit options to your child: "Try and give you child a ‘choice’ from 2 or 3 outfits that you select. This way the child still feels that the decision is theirs, and you are still making use of your favourite pieces." Tayla Thomforde of My Journey Home agrees: "I'm not going to let her look like a crazy, but give her 2 or 3 options to choose from."

3. Bring Backup

It never hurts to pack a weather- and activity-appropriate back-up outfit. As Melanie of Menschenkind relays: "If he wants to wear his wellies on his bike, well I let him do it — and secretly pack a normal pair of shoes in my bag that he can put on once he realised that Mum was right when she said that this is not a clever choice (after two minutes or so)."

And of course, don't stress too much over clothing choices. As Sheri Silver of the blog donuts, dresses and dirt wisely advises: "There are children who adamantly insist on tutus for pre-school and snow boots in summer. Having been a parent for over 20 years now I can honestly say, pick your battles — and clothing should NOT be one of them. As long as they are warm and dry and covered up it's all good!"

What's the craziest outfit your child has worn?

Image Source: abbybatchelder via Flickr/Creative Commons

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