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Bringing Sexy Back: Rub A Dub Dub

When Ernie, the beloved puppet on Sesame Street sang, "Rubber Ducky, you're the one," I don't think he had this one in mind. This rubber ducky ain't for baby, but it can help you rekindle the flame you once had.

Innocent looking and discreet, the I Rub my Duckie ($24) vibrator can provide entry to an adventurous postpartum sex life. The little yellow guy might make bath and bedtime lots of fun.

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JennyJen2 JennyJen2 8 years
So what all you people are trying to say is that I should not be a little taken aback when next they flop a big dildo picture on the site and using my kid's tickle me elmo doll to get off is okay - since it takes sex to get pregnant. All I was saying was that I think it is a little off for the norm of the site and I didn't agree with the message that it is sending. I am all about bringing back the love after baby and kids are in the picture, just not like this.
JennyJen2 JennyJen2 8 years
So what all you people are trying to say is that I should not be a little taken aback when next they flop a big dildo picture on the site and using my kid's tickle me elmo doll to get off is okay - since it takes sex to get pregnant. All I was saying was that I think it is a little off for the norm of the site and I didn't agree with the message that it is sending. I am all about bringing back the love after baby and kids are in the picture, just not like this.
kikidawn kikidawn 8 years
Let me ask this... how many of you have either played out a fantasy or been with a man that has a fantasy like this one: 'catholic school girl'? How is that any different? Girls should not be objects of sexual desire, but that is an acceptable fantasy. I don't see what the difference is. I guess it just doesn't bother me b/c I never had a rubber ducky. I don't associate that with my childhood, if you do fine.
kikidawn kikidawn 8 years
Let me ask this... how many of you have either played out a fantasy or been with a man that has a fantasy like this one: 'catholic school girl'? How is that any different? Girls should not be objects of sexual desire, but that is an acceptable fantasy. I don't see what the difference is. I guess it just doesn't bother me b/c I never had a rubber ducky. I don't associate that with my childhood, if you do fine.
macgirl macgirl 8 years
Just because I am open minded and not offended by this little duck thing doesn't mean I'm kissing anyones ass. While I wouldn't own it I do know people that would feel more comfortable with something like this rather than the more traditional vibrator shape. I don't think that makes them wrong or sick. Some people might even feel more comfortable having this hidden away in a bedroom drawer in case the kid found it. My only reason for posting was to be sure to let the writers of the lilsugar blog know that some people are interested in the "bringing sexy back" line of posts. I also happen to believe that yes, moms do deserve to reach a fabulous orgasm. That's just me though. I would never dream of posting a comment that was completely one sided saying that ALL moms SHOULD be having fabulous orgasms. I think being a mommy is hard enough without all the judgmental comments :-(
macgirl macgirl 8 years
Just because I am open minded and not offended by this little duck thing doesn't mean I'm kissing anyones ass. While I wouldn't own it I do know people that would feel more comfortable with something like this rather than the more traditional vibrator shape. I don't think that makes them wrong or sick. Some people might even feel more comfortable having this hidden away in a bedroom drawer in case the kid found it. My only reason for posting was to be sure to let the writers of the lilsugar blog know that some people are interested in the "bringing sexy back" line of posts. I also happen to believe that yes, moms do deserve to reach a fabulous orgasm. That's just me though. I would never dream of posting a comment that was completely one sided saying that ALL moms SHOULD be having fabulous orgasms. I think being a mommy is hard enough without all the judgmental comments :-(
lorenashley lorenashley 8 years
totally leo. very inappropriate to use a KIDS TOY as a sexual object. it's sick.i love you too babe :hug:
lorenashley lorenashley 8 years
totally leo. very inappropriate to use a KIDS TOY as a sexual object. it's sick. i love you too babe :hug:
letsgetloud21 letsgetloud21 8 years
exactly LEO..:)
letsgetloud21 letsgetloud21 8 years
exactly LEO..:)
Leopardcc Leopardcc 8 years
You know I thought we were all free to express our opinions here, thought that was the point of the post. My problem isn't with the post at all, I was just saying I didn't like the idea of using A CHILD'S TOY as an object to get sexual gratification.
letsgetloud21 letsgetloud21 8 years
:ROTFL: L,that is why I love you :)
letsgetloud21 letsgetloud21 8 years
:ROTFL: L,that is why I love you :)
lorenashley lorenashley 8 years
LOL @ you people getting mad. we thought it wasnt called for so we said it. no need for you all to ass kiss. kiki---people have to have sex to get pregnant?? NOOOO WAY! so the purpose of LILSUGAR is to tell moms has to reach a fabulous orgasm??? you people and these smart ass comments are so funny and annoying.
lorenashley lorenashley 8 years
LOL @ you people getting mad. we thought it wasnt called for so we said it. no need for you all to ass kiss. kiki---people have to have sex to get pregnant?? NOOOO WAY! so the purpose of LILSUGAR is to tell moms has to reach a fabulous orgasm??? you people and these smart ass comments are so funny and annoying.
macgirl macgirl 8 years
I think this is perfect for this site. I happen to like the "bringing sexy back" line of posts. Having a baby/kids can take such a toll on the sex life. If there are really that many of you that don't like these kind of posts, the good news is they are very clearly labeled in the header and you can skip them. I think it is important to be reminded occasionally that you are more than a mommy. Things can be so overwhelming at times it is easy to forget.
Rafka Rafka 8 years
The post is fine, but should be on Fit Sugar or Dear Sugar. This is more of a sexual health item than pregnancy or parenthood. Additionally I've seen this item on other sites, none which I consider risque.
annebreal annebreal 8 years
I think I saw this on good vibes while I was shopping around the other day and doesn't it have a bondage outfit or something too to put on it? I laughed but would probably have a hard time getting my jollies from it since it is such an iconic Sesame Street and childhood object...my mind tends to wander and try and O-block for me anyhow sometimes, don't need the help! Gotta be honest I thought this post was a little random but agree that the mothers on here should have the maturity level to deal.
CuteCapri115 CuteCapri115 8 years
I have to agree with Traceface - Some people are just too extra!!I hate to say what was already said but this is a site for ADULTS to learn things about their kids and their self while they raise their kids. Some people are acting like 2 & 3 year olds are going to be logging on and reading about the Ducky. Geez people get over yourselves!!!!
CuteCapri115 CuteCapri115 8 years
I have to agree with Traceface - Some people are just too extra!! I hate to say what was already said but this is a site for ADULTS to learn things about their kids and their self while they raise their kids. Some people are acting like 2 & 3 year olds are going to be logging on and reading about the Ducky. Geez people get over yourselves!!!!
bransugar79 bransugar79 8 years
I think this is a little freaky... but I think that's the point. While I don't think I woudl get a rubber duck vibrator I don't see how it's incredibly offensive. i know a lot of women in general not just new moms have a hard time with exploring their sexuality. If that's the case then admit it and move on, but if the information could help someone else feel more comfortable with herself or maybe help save a relationship then how can it be harmful
myconscience myconscience 8 years
um, i don't see what there is to be offended about here. this isn't a kid's site. it's a site for adults. adults have sex. it's natural & normal & unless you adopt, or are in with the storks, there's no way to have a child without sex. presumably, adults who own these vibrators aren't going to hand them over to their kids. i think it's a great idea, & i'm glad for the tip. it isn't as if babysugar posted a porno & forced you to watch it. good grief!
myconscience myconscience 8 years
um, i don't see what there is to be offended about here. this isn't a kid's site. it's a site for adults. adults have sex. it's natural & normal & unless you adopt, or are in with the storks, there's no way to have a child without sex. presumably, adults who own these vibrators aren't going to hand them over to their kids. i think it's a great idea, & i'm glad for the tip. it isn't as if babysugar posted a porno & forced you to watch it. good grief!
JennyJen2 JennyJen2 8 years
I was just shocked that the post ended up on lilsugar. I dunno - it just shocked me - call me a prude or what you may, but I guess I just wasn't prepared for it.
Moms Moms 8 years
Good points kikidawn and great post babysugar!
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