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Did You Lose Your Virginity to the Father of Your Children?

The first time can be a charm . . . for children. Our girl Très is polling her readers about where they lost their virginity and it got me thinking: did the person you lost your virginity to end up being the father of your children? Lots of people used to save sex until marriage so it was a given that a person's "first" would be their coparent, but now that's often not the case. Still, there's always high school sweethearts or couples who reconnect later in life or, as 16 and Pregnant has proved, the chance of getting pregnant the first time. Fill us in!

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FshLover09 FshLover09 5 years
YUP...been with my lovely boyfriend for 4 years and we are expecting our first!
sbarth sbarth 5 years
Yep! He was my first... he's the father of all of my children... and he'll be my last! :-)
AngiD AngiD 5 years
Oh lord no!
SusanTeufel SusanTeufel 5 years
No children yet, but the guy I lost my virginity to is now my husband.
lauraxtc lauraxtc 5 years
Nope. not at all. But its Kool. It would of been a total disaster with my first. The guy I first loved, we did have our first child together but that didn't work out either. Ha! Go figure. You can't always predict the weather right? Now with my second child, things are more stabled and I have grown up a lot.
Deidre Deidre 5 years
Congrats to all those who have held such long term relationships! Impressive, and you should pat yourself on the back for how much work that takes. My hubs and father of my child was not my first. I made a few mistakes before I was lucky enough to find the right partner. But any past relationship taught me something about what to do right this time around, so no regrets.
mstrauss mstrauss 5 years
Waited until marriage thanks to orthodox Judaism :) My husband, and the father of my child (and one on the way), was my first.
HoneyBrown1976 HoneyBrown1976 5 years
Heck no. I was a teenager when I lost it. I wasn't trying to be a parent. My husband is my college sweetheart. We've been together for fifteen years.
MissSushi MissSushi 5 years
Yes but i wasn't married or planning to be married, and he wasn't my first long term relationship. We've been together 6 years now.
Pampire Pampire 5 years
Yes and still going strong 13 years and 2 kids later! High school Sweethearts for me too.
schnappycat schnappycat 5 years
Yep, we are also high school sweethearts. Together 20 years now and married almost 14.
emartinrn emartinrn 5 years
Yep - high school sweethearts! together for 15 years, married for 7.
starbucks2 starbucks2 5 years
God, no...I could have never had children with that guy. I was young and naive and my standards were different.
Mme-Hart Mme-Hart 5 years
Uhh no lol
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