Skip Nav
Parenting
What I Learned Rewatching Gilmore Girls as a Mother
Best of 2016
These Are the Most Popular Baby Names of 2016
Holiday For Kids
This Family Has a Real-Life Elf on the Shelf, and He's Cuter Than All of Ours

Issues With Child's Best Friend

Mommy Dearest: I Don't Like My Child's Best Friend

Mommy Dearest –

I know it is terrible to say, but I don't like my daughter's best friend. She is pushy and manipulative and seems to bring out the worst in my child. When the girls are together, all I get is sass from my child and if they have been playing together I can see a change in my daughter's entire attitude. I would stop scheduling play dates with her but I a) know it would devastate my child and, b) would be hard to enforce because they are in the same class. Do you have any advice for me?

– Baffled by Best Friend

To see Mommy Dearest's response,

.

Dear Baffled by Best Friend –

Depending on your child's age, her best friend could be the "flavor of the week" and your problem could easily be solved as she moves on. If, however, that isn't the case, you may want to speak to your daughter's school to see if the tots can be placed in separate classes. I would also strongly encourage her to play with other kids by arranging a full schedule of playdates. Finally, you need to be sure to point out bad behavior to your daughter to ensure that she isn't repeating it. A combination of these suggestions should make for a more manageable relationship.

Image Source: Thinkstock
Around The Web
Join The Conversation
MissSushi MissSushi 6 years
I was going to suggest the same thing as lickety. You can't just ban a friend like that at that age, but you can take control of the situations and use it as a learning process.
lickety-split lickety-split 6 years
change your daughters class because you don't like this girl? i hate to break it to you, but this is the first of MANY things your child will choose that you won't like. its your job as an adult to set limits. if you don't have instructional control over your own child when she has a friend over; that's on YOU, not the other child. after the next playdate, if there is an incident you shoukd tell your daughter, "there were some things that happened during the play date today that i didn't like. this is what they were....if it happens next time, if there is rudeness or sassy talk, you won't be having any playdates for 2 weeks while we work on manners rather than play. do you understand?" will take at most 2 times.
skigurl skigurl 6 years
Agree with lil....it would be hard to completely cut her off from this friend, but you can do things to make her behaviour better and manage the friendship a little. And I'm willing to assume that they won't be best friends forever!
Jennifer Aniston Talking About a Friends Reunion 2016
Jennifer Aniston Wearing Black Boots October 2016
Tips For a Successful Friendship
Reasons Lifelong Mom Friends Are the Best
Friends Theory About Ross and Ben
Central Perk in Singapore (Video)
How to Dress Like Rachel Green From Friends

POPSUGAR, the #1 independent media and technology company for women. Where more than 75 million women go for original, inspirational content that feeds their passions and interests.

From Our Partners
Latest Moms
All the Latest From Ryan Reynolds