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Is the Term MILF a Compliment or Condescending?

The moniker MILF meaning "mom I'd like to (insert expletive here)" has become increasingly popular in the last few years. Little Pink Line, a mama owned clothing company celebrates the term with yoga pants printed across the tush ($40).

Have you been referred to as a MILF? If so, were you flabbergasted or flattered?

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csluvspink csluvspink 4 years
From a husband/BF/potential BF all would be a compliment, in no way would I want that (or any other message plastered on my a**)
hihowareya hihowareya 7 years
I'd take it as a compliment if I was older, but since I'm just 24 I'd be offended if someone thought I was already older and a mother. Milf is a funny sounding word, and it's nice to know others find you attractive. Our [American] culture makes older women out to be less attractive, and that childbirth stigmatizes someone as unappealing and untouchable, and the MILF term flips these stereotypes on its head, so it's empowering. Those were my personal reasonings for choosing it as a compliment.
chicchick chicchick 7 years
I take the compliment from my husband and my girlfriends (when they say, "You're a MILF!) :) But seriously, no one needs words across their @ss except teenage girls - and that's really something that I find a bit tacky...
AKirstin AKirstin 7 years
Star-Bellies Sneetches, as it were.
AKirstin AKirstin 7 years
At it's core, the term "milf" seeks to separate women who have children into two groups: those who are "worthy" of sexual attention, and those who are not. Fuck that.
sofi sofi 7 years
I hate the term, but if you have to put it on your ass...maybe you are not one. :?
marcella marcella 7 years
trashy!
marcella marcella 7 years
trashy!
stina829 stina829 7 years
I've never liked the term.And those pants are just way too tacky.
stina829 stina829 7 years
I've never liked the term. And those pants are just way too tacky.
JennyJen2 JennyJen2 7 years
Those pants look rediculous. Who wears this stuff?I figure the people wearing these are the same people thinking that since Britney, Christina and Nicole are having babies that it is "cool" or stylish to have kids.
JennyJen2 JennyJen2 7 years
Those pants look rediculous. Who wears this stuff? I figure the people wearing these are the same people thinking that since Britney, Christina and Nicole are having babies that it is "cool" or stylish to have kids.
asco00 asco00 7 years
It definitely depends on who's saying it. Among friends, or my husband that's okay. But I sure as heck wouldn't wear it as an article of clothing.
lickety-split lickety-split 7 years
tacky on the pants. but kind of funny in certain situations.
hvanness331 hvanness331 7 years
Some high schoolers, possibly middle schoolers, yelled that out to me a few years ago at the mall while I was pushing my son's stroller. I thought it was funny and called my husband. His comment? "that's awesome!"
haute77 haute77 7 years
It doesn't matter what you put on your butt, it looks stupid and trashy! Ladies it's enough that you have to worry about your butt let alone people looking at it trying to decipher what's on it.
bidds626 bidds626 7 years
i always thought the term would come from the mouths of the peers of your children- so kids of middle to high school age- which is dumb on their part and gross on yours.
rgrl rgrl 7 years
I don't like the term. I find it obnoxious. Luckily I don't think my husband knows the term. As far as a stranger calling me that? I'd probably be tempted to slap them. No one walks around telling random women they'd like to **** them, so why is it OK to say that to a woman who had a child?
blackjade blackjade 7 years
If it came from young guy (who hasn't yet learned how you should compliment a woman) I would take it as a compliment....but at the same time I'm surely not going to wear it on my butt!!
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 7 years
I'm not a mother, but I find the term pathetic. Also, the woman in the pic is trying too hard, and she looks vulgar. I think sexuality is very positive (when it's expressed in a natural, classy way), not when it's contrived and vulgar.
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 7 years
I'm not a mother, but I find the term pathetic. Also, the woman in the pic is trying too hard, and she looks vulgar. I think sexuality is very positive (when it's expressed in a natural, classy way), not when it's contrived and vulgar.
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