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Why Didn't Anybody Tell Me: Strangers Touching Baby

Why Didn't Anybody Tell Me: Strangers Touching Baby


The only thing worse than strangers rubbing your pregnant belly is when they touch your children!

And, as a new mom, it took me by surprise since I had lived my life as a person who kept her hands to herself.

My daughter had a set of irresistible chipmunk cheeks that passersby felt free to pinch. But beyond the sheer germ factor of dirty hands touching my infant's face, the tugging alarmed me.

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People crept up at the most unexpected times to peek under the stroller shade or take the liberty of giving her platinum haired head a good rub.

It didn't bother her, but it bugged me since my baby's space and safety were being violated.

While I didn't want to be rude, after a couple of episodes where strangers asked to hold her or leaned in for a kiss, I was fine with just telling people that I preferred they didn't.

Whether a situation calls for a polite "no" or merits an all-out, "Back away from my baby!" as a mom you should feel free to let your voice be heard.

Did this ever happen to you?

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