Last year, hip-hop singer Frank Ocean revealed his first love to be a man in a heartfelt Tumblr post. He avoided using the words "gay" or "bisexual" but wrote, "I was 19 years old. He was too. We spent that Summer, and the Summer after, together. Every day almost. And on the days we were together, time would glide. Most of the day I'd see him, and his smile. I'd hear his conversation and his silence . . . until it was time to sleep. Sleep I would often share with him. By the time I realized I was in love, it was malignant. It was hopeless."