trait snapshot: clean, secretive, does not make friends easily, observer, hates large parties, risk averse, perfectionist, reclusive, solitude loving, more practical than abstract, does not like to stand out, high self control, intellectual, mind over heart, very cautious, takes precautions, respects authority, irritable, emotionally sensitive How to Get Along with Me * Be independent, not clingy. * Speak in a straightforward and brief manner. * I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts. * Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that I am feeling uncomfortable. * Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your sincerity. * If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place. * Don't come on like a bulldozer. * Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people's loud music, overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.