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 <title>Luke Hopes New Film Kills at The Box Office</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Luke-Hopes-New-Film-Kills-Box-Office-312073&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=109  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/users/0/88/24_2007/Luke-big-face.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Luke Wilson and Tea Leoni premiered &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/312356&quot; &gt;their new film, You Kill Me&lt;/a&gt; in LA last night.  Luke&#039;s film &lt;b&gt;Vacancy&lt;/b&gt; came and went but hopefully &lt;b&gt;You Kill Me&lt;/b&gt; will be more popular.  The film stars Ben Kingsley as an alcoholic hit man who is sent out to the West Coast to dry out.  Luke plays his gay AA sponsor and Tea is the love interest.  It hits the theaters June 22 so &lt;a href=&quot;http://buzzsugar.com/312356&quot; &gt;click here&lt;/a&gt; to check out the trailer.  If this film isn&#039;t for you then there&#039;s always his August release with Jessica Simpson, &lt;a href=&quot;/247304&quot; &gt;Blonde Ambition&lt;/a&gt;, but we&#039;re still a little shocked he signed on to that one.&lt;/p&gt;
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Next Friday, along with the openings of &lt;a href=&quot;/tag/a+mighty+heart&quot; &gt;A Mighty Heart&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href=&quot;/309201&quot; &gt;Evan Almighty&lt;/a&gt;, Tea Leoni, Luke Wilson and Ben Kingsley will star in &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.youkillmethefilm.com/&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;You Kill Me&lt;/a&gt;, a kind of dark-humored crime comedy. Kingsley plays Frank, an alcoholic hit man who travels to San Francisco to get sober when his hit man abilities get sloppy. There he befriends the saucy Laurel (Leoni) who may prove helpful when Frank is called upon to return to finish some business in Buffalo, New York. Wilson plays Frank&#039;s gay AA sponsor. You can watch the trailer if you &lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Apparition-Trailer-23261650&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/4/192/1922283/f0a0e94ca8953e91_ash.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Remember that old inspirational saying, &quot;If you can believe it, you can achieve it&quot;? It looks like that&#039;s the case for &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Ashley Greene&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Ashley-Greene&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Ashley Greene&lt;/a&gt;, Sebastian Stan, and Tom Felton in &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/tag/The-Apparition&quot; &gt;The Apparition&lt;/a&gt;. The trailer shows a team of young researchers attempting to create an apparition with their minds. When the experiment is a success, they realize that maybe it wasn&#039;t the best idea to go around making ghosts appear, especially when said ghost starts killing people.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;This trailer is totally creepy and also pretty reminiscent of a couple of horror classics. The hubris of the young scientists trying to create something unnatural without regard for whether it may turn out to be totally evil is so &lt;b&gt;Flatliners&lt;/b&gt;, while the &quot;You believe it, you die&quot; concept reminds me a lot of &lt;b&gt;The Ring&lt;/b&gt;, though you had to at least watch a video tape in &lt;b&gt;The Ring&lt;/b&gt;. These kids might be worse off, given that they have to control their own thoughts in order to survive. The flick comes out Aug. 24, but you can watch the preview when you &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;Photo courtesy of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.warnerbros.com/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Warner Bros. Pictures&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <title>Cannes Minireview: Killing Them Softly</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Killing-Them-Softly-Cannes-Review-Brad-Pitt-23218530&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media1.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/21/2/192/1922283/7f654ad4eacb62a6_bradbuzz.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Brad Pitt&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Brad-Pitt&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Brad Pitt&lt;/a&gt;&#039;s gritty new project, &lt;b&gt;Killing Them Softly&lt;/b&gt; (formerly titled &lt;b&gt;Cogan&#039;s Trade&lt;/b&gt;, and based on a book of the same name), made its debut to the press at the Cannes Film Festival this morning. Considering the early hour of the screening and just how violent and drug-fueled it is as a film, I was surprised by how much I enjoyed it overall. Pitt is at his best playing the ruthless assassin, and James Gandolfini can, of course, carry a mob movie. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Who&#039;s behind it?&lt;/b&gt; Like &lt;b&gt;Sapphires&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;b&gt;Lawless&lt;/b&gt;, it&#039;s another The Weinstein Company film here at the festival. Writer-director Andrew Dominik brings together an excellent cast of men to tell his story, including Ray Liotta in addition to Pitt and Gandolfini. With that much testosterone on screen, there&#039;s not much room for the ladies. In fact, there&#039;s barely a female to be seen in the film at all. At the center, there are two bumbling thieves, played by Scoot McNairy and Ben Mendelsohn, who shine in their own deeply messed-up ways - often seen sweating and using drugs. Pitt, who we have seen playing a ruthless assassin before, does it again, this time with slicked-back hair and a cigarette dangling from his mouth as he explains his preferred method of murder - &quot;killing them softly,&quot; rather than listening to them plead.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;What&#039;s it about?&lt;/b&gt; On paper, it&#039;s about a heist at a mob poker game gone wrong, but as both the director and Pitt spoke at the film&#039;s press conference after the screening, it&#039;s a much larger commentary on America&#039;s capitalist society. It&#039;s set in New Orleans against the backdrop of the 2008 financial crisis and election, with actual speeches from Barack Obama and Sarah Palin sprinkled throughout. As for the actual heist at stake, Frankie and Russell (McNairy and Mendelsohn) rob a poker game that was previously hit up as part of a scam put on by its own owner, Andrew (Liotta). Pitt&#039;s character, Jackie Cogan, is brought in by the larger mob bosses to assassinate the men. Wires are quickly crossed and it can be hard to tell who is working for whom, but with the crazy visuals and hilarious, sometimes unsettling, one-liners, it is a riveting watch. I, for one, was particularly amused by the scenes about Russell running a racket by stealing purebred dogs.
&lt;p&gt;More important even than the story, however, is the feel of the film. It takes place and was shot in New Orleans, a city which Pitt is clearly comfortable in. It&#039;s not quite a love letter to the city - or to anything for that matter - like &lt;b&gt;The Curious Case of Benjamin Button&lt;/b&gt;, but it still has that uniquely gritty and stylized New Orleans feel.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;To read what I thought of the film at Cannes, just &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;What did I think?&lt;/b&gt; The performances, especially by Gandolfini, could start award-season buzz, depending on how and when &lt;b&gt;Killing Them Softly&lt;/b&gt; is released stateside. While the film is not for the faint of heart, it&#039;s a thought-provoking watch. The humor and political commentary keep it from being a straightforward mob movie, therefore setting it apart from being the same story we&#039;ve seen 100 times before. Plus, Pitt&#039;s swagger, Gandolfini&#039;s monologue expertise, and a pack of dogs are welcome at any movie for me. Watch out for the last line, though, it will stick with you.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;Photo courtesy of &lt;a href=&quot;http://weinsteinco.com/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Weinstein Company&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Greys-Anatomy-Season-Finale-Fan-Reaction-23165818&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/5/192/1922283/96130da88b9c6e20_128265_0659_pre.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;It looks like we weren&#039;t the only ones gabbing about the big entertainment stories this week! &lt;b&gt;Grey&#039;s Anatomy&lt;/b&gt; ignited quite a response by ending its season with a shocking death. The news is in about all the series cancellations and renewals, and not everyone is pleased. Meanwhile, the &lt;b&gt;Magic Mike&lt;/b&gt; stars graced the cover of &lt;b&gt;Entertainment Weekly&lt;/b&gt;, but not everyone is feeling the stripper vibe. Check out the most talked-about stories of the week!&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Greys-Anatomy-Flight-Season-Finale-Recap-23153630&quot; &gt;Grey&#039;s Anatomy creator Shonda Rhimes shocked viewers&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&quot;I was very disappointed with season finale. You figure they&#039;d want the show to be at its best the last two seasons. I don&#039;t understand the need to kill off a character that everyone loves when there are so many other other characters that we can do without: April, Teddy, Owen, even Arizona. Fans that have been watching &lt;b&gt;Grey&#039;s&lt;/b&gt; from the very beginning are very attached to characters that have been around for a while.&quot; - Karen2711218 &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&quot;Lexie was by far the most interesting and complex character on the show. She is portrayed by a talented actor and her scenes were always the most interesting for me to watch. I have to say that her death on the show was shocking and disappointing.&quot; - Mauli2713484 &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&quot;I&#039;m also disappointed by the finale! I kept hoping that it was all Meredith&#039;s dream! I really loved Lexie and was hoping her and Mark would finally be together!&quot; - Kpeezy20&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;To check out what TV cancellations viewers were bummed about, just &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/What-Shows-Were-Canceled-Renewed-2012-23099516&quot; &gt;Networks broke some hearts with cancellation announcements&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&quot;Very bummed that &lt;b&gt;Pan Am&lt;/b&gt;, &lt;b&gt;GCB&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;b&gt;Ringer&lt;/b&gt; were canceled! Can&#039;t believe &lt;b&gt;2 Broke Girls&lt;/b&gt; got another season. &lt;b&gt;Finder&lt;/b&gt; was really good. Although I like &lt;b&gt;Awake&lt;/b&gt; I can see why it didn&#039;t have enough viewers to keep the show going. I think it&#039;s time for all the &lt;b&gt;CSI&lt;/b&gt;s to cancel. How many new ways can they kill a body?&quot; - mdmachlin &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&quot;Happy that all my shows are coming back (&lt;b&gt;30 Rock&lt;/b&gt;, &lt;b&gt;Smash&lt;/b&gt;, &lt;b&gt;Happy Endings&lt;/b&gt;, &lt;b&gt;Once Upon a Time&lt;/b&gt;) and have to admit, I thought some of the shows on this list were already over, like &lt;b&gt;Private Practice&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;b&gt;90210&lt;/b&gt;, and a good chunk had never heard of.&quot; - Jesssa &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&quot;So unfortunate that some of these shows are canceled. I liked &lt;b&gt;Finder&lt;/b&gt; and &lt;b&gt;Awake&lt;/b&gt;. I can&#039;t believe &lt;b&gt;Whitney&lt;/b&gt; was renewed for another season. It&#039;s about time &lt;b&gt;CSI: Miami&lt;/b&gt; is over!&quot; - letter2elise &lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Channing-Tatum-Magic-Mike-Entertainment-Weekly-Cover-23139636&quot; &gt;Not everyone is on the Magic Mike train&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&quot;Give me a break. With the exception of Matt Bomer (really sorry to see him associated with a project like this), these guys are completely interchangeable with so many other so-called actors in the business today. When I spend my hard-earned money on a movie, I want to see good acting and a decent plot, not a bunch of narcissistic body builder clones with no substance.&quot; - Janet2373373 &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&quot;Plot looks ridiculous!! But I will definitely be getting my girlfriends together to go see this . . . wow.&quot; - Livvy-P&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&quot;OK, I know these guys are pretty yummy, but would people really go to the theater to see this movie? What&#039;s the story about?&quot; - chocolate79 &lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;Photo courtesy of: &lt;a href=&quot;http://abc.com&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;ABC&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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 <pubDate>Sun, 20 May 2012 03:05:00 PDT</pubDate>
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 <title>Online Dating: 5 Ways To Stand Out From The Crowd</title>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tressugar.com/How-Stand-Out-Online-Dating-23148965&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/4/301/3019466/b90bc56b86d1d047_sdsdsdsd.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;We&#039;re happy to present this excerpt from one of our favorite sites, &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/experts/david-osterczy/excerpts-my-new-book-101-online-dating-tips&quot;   target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;. Today, David Osterczy gives us an excerpt from his new book &lt;b&gt;101 Online Dating Tips&lt;/b&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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Here is a smattering of tips from my latest book, &lt;b&gt;Dating DeMistyfied, 101 Online Dating Tips.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;ve left out much of &quot;the meat and potatoes,&quot; but left in enough content for you to get an indication of what you will learn from this book. This book was written from 10 years of Internet dating experience, thousands of interviews with both men and women and research garnered from our last five to six Dating DeMistyfied Workshops. &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Put great effort into writing your profile. Show passion and humor.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I mean really, if you can&#039;t have fun writing a simple online profile, then what sort of person do you suppose that you&#039;ll attract? Way back in 2001, I submitted my first profile to Match.com. I had no experience writing profiles but just figured what the hell . . . let&#039;s have fun!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I wrote the text on a Sunday night and didn&#039;t check my email until Friday night. During the five days I was &quot;away,&quot; I received nearly 150 emails from about 120 women. Yes, some wrote me up to three times during that week! I was shocked, but realized that I was on to something!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The point that I&#039;m attempting to make is to be sure that your personality comes through in the profile. If you&#039;re silly or funny, then by all means, portray that! If you&#039;re really smart and have a lot to say, then say it! If you&#039;re sarcastic - in a good way - then allow that to come through. If you&#039;re not into writing, like many are not, then just do the best that you can but make sure to come across as you. After all, you are the only one that you really know how to be!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Just have fun folks! Be honest and definitely ask for what you want when describing what you seek in a mate. Write in the same manner as you speak so that each person reading your profile feels that you&#039;re talking directly to him or her. After all, that is what we&#039;re all here for!&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;b&gt;Make sure to upload only the clearest, best and most recent photos.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;You&#039;d think that this would be a no brainer, but the more you surf the personals online, the more you&#039;ll be shocked at the sheer idiocy of some people and the pictures they submit to dating sites. Photos are your first line of attack, and if they suck, no-one will even read your wonderful, well thought out profile! I&#039;m not telling you that you need to go out and get professional shots taken, but I have friends who have done very well going exactly that route. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Simply put, if you don&#039;t have any decent, clear photos of yourself, then grab your digital (you know that you have one!) and grab some friends and spend the day taking lots of photos alone and in groups. It is critically important that you have a variety of pictures. Have some close-ups (head-shots) so that people can see how beautiful your eyes are, some full length shots so they can get an idea of your body type and some group photos so they know that you actually leave the house and can be social.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;For the rest of the article, head to YourTango:  &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/experts/david-osterczy/excerpts-my-new-book-101-online-dating-tips&quot;   target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Online Dating: 5 Ways To Stand Out From The Crowd&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Written by David Osterczy for YourTango.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;More from &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;YourTango&lt;/a&gt;: &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/2012152324/5-things-you-didnt-know-about-masturbation&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;5 Facts You Didn&#039;t Know About Masturbation &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/2012152296/most-popular-baby-names-2011-appeal-sophia&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Most Popular Baby Names Of 2011: The Appeal Of &quot;Sophia&quot;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.yourtango.com/experts/shay-your-date-diva-williams/4-relationship-deal-breakers-will-kill-any-new-romance&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;4 Things That Can Kill Any New Romance&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Glee-Nationals-Recap-23120248&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media4.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/20/3/192/1922283/f625980d073a10f9_321GLEE_Ep321-Sc18_236.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;It&#039;s a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/glee&quot; &gt;Glee&lt;/a&gt; double whammy this week as the New Directions prep for, and then head to Nationals! As we&#039;ve seen at the end of each season, emotions are running high, as the kids get ready to take on Vocal Adrenaline. The stakes are even higher this year since a lot of the seniors are graduating, and there&#039;s one gleek in particular who&#039;s feeling a little left out.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;Season three has not been my favorite, but both of this week&#039;s episodes won me over in a big way. The first hour is both funny and poignant, while the second is very sweet and sentimental, as we get ready to say goodbye to some of the core cast members. The night definitely brings back memories from the first season when the show took the world by storm, and reminded me why I fell in love with it in the first place. Let&#039;s break down the highlights when you &lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;I&#039;m glad Tina finally gets a little time to shine, though it&#039;s a bit awkward that the opening voice-over is all about how the show has essentially ignored her for the first three seasons. Still, it&#039;s a nice break, and the sweet moments between Rachel and Tina feel authentic and are fun to watch, particularly when Tina offers to take Rachel on a road trip to see Carmen Thibedeau. And though it&#039;s not my favorite number of the night, I love that Rachel gives Tina her wish to duet on &quot;What a Feeling.&quot;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Just because it needs to be mentioned: Kurt and Blaine&#039;s &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Halloween&quot; href=&quot;http://www.yumsugar.com/Halloween&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Halloween&lt;/a&gt; costumes as Snooki and the Situation. Amazing.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;OK, the switcheroo moment was everything I hoped it would be and more. Though the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Glee-Pictures-From-PropsNationals-22996419&quot; &gt;sneak peek pictures&lt;/a&gt; gave away who would become who during Tina&#039;s dream, it&#039;s still amazing to see the kids all mixed up: particularly Artie as Santana. Genius. My head continued exploding throughout the entire sequence, especially seeing the reaction shots to Tina&#039;s rendition of &quot;Because You Loved Me&quot; (Mr. Schue&#039;s impression of Sue is spot-on). Speaking of which, Tina totally kills the song: are we getting a preview of what &lt;b&gt;Glee&lt;/b&gt; might be like next season?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Coach Beiste has had to do some emotional heavy lifting lately, but this is one of the few times we see Puck truly vulnerable. His feelings of inadequacy about his future come to a head when one of the bullies at school challenges him to a fight in the schoolyard. After Beiste breaks it up, Puck breaks down in tears about feeling like garbage, and he and Beiste comfort each other in a truly touching moment. What&#039;s even better is that Beiste proceeds to dump Cooter, and she and Puck sing a sweet duet of &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Taylor Swift&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Taylor-Swift&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Taylor Swift&lt;/a&gt;&#039;s &quot;Mean.&quot; (Honestly I&#039;m surprised it&#039;s taken &lt;b&gt;Glee&lt;/b&gt; this long to get that song).&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;I love all the throwbacks to the first season in this episode; there&#039;s talk of Tina&#039;s first audition, some reminiscing about Puck&#039;s days tossing kids in dumpsters, and even an utterance of the &lt;b&gt;Glee&lt;/b&gt;-patented insult &quot;lima loser.&quot; Those were the days.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;How is it possible that the New Directions are, yet again, about to perform at Nationals and they&#039;re still trying to slap together the routine just hours beforehand? It&#039;s no wonder they&#039;re all on edge, but at least they aren&#039;t trying to write their own songs this time around.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;I can&#039;t even talk about how much I &lt;i&gt;loved&lt;/i&gt; every one of the New Directions&#039; performances at Nationals; this is by far and away my favorite performance episode. I had chills during &quot;The Edge of Glory,&quot; which turned into goose bumps for &quot;It&#039;s All Coming Back to Me Now.&quot; But the real kicker is &quot;Paradise By the Dashboard Light&quot; - the number is mesmerizing, and I felt proud of how far they&#039;ve come. I can&#039;t remember the last time I was so caught up the performances of this show. They absolutely nailed it.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;As for Vocal Adrenaline, well, they certainly bring the theatrics. I&#039;m a fan of Unique&#039;s, but something about their numbers lacked energy. But maybe that&#039;s because the dudes were so tired from picking up the girls repeatedly and pushing those heavy-looking pinball machines around?&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Giving Unique the suddenly existent MVP award is a nice consolation when the New Directions win the grand prize. I do kind of wish they&#039;d give up the celebrity judges&#039; shtick though. No offense to &lt;a class=&quot;sugar_inline_link&quot; title=&quot;Latest photos and news for Lindsay Lohan&quot; href=&quot;http://www.popsugar.com/Lindsay-Lohan&quot; target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Lindsay Lohan&lt;/a&gt;, but getting a peek inside the self-involved judges&#039; room used to be funny but now it just feels stale.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The scene where we get to watch the New Directions celebrating their victory feels like three years coming, and it actually could have been a very fitting end to the series as a whole. The kids are about to graduate and move away, and now they&#039;ve finally got the biggest trophy in all the land. Hell, they even let Will and Emma finally do it (though did that really need to be shoehorned in with the confetti?). The icing on the cake, of course, is Mr. Schuester&#039;s Teacher of the Year award and the performance of &quot;We Are the Champions.&quot; A perfect end to a great episode.&lt;/li&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;With only one more episode to go, it all culminates with next week&#039;s graduation episode. Were you touched by this episode like I was? What&#039;d you think of the New Directions&#039; showing at Nationals?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=&#039;font-size:10px !important;&#039;&gt;Photo courtesy of &lt;a href=&quot;http://fox.com&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Fox&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;The title of the episode, &quot;A Man Without Honor,&quot; certainly feels apt, though I&#039;d say there&#039;s definitely more than one man who shows his lack of honor this week. I&#039;m ready to break down the big moments of the episode, though, so to see which scenes I can&#039;t stop thinking about, &lt;a href=&quot;/Game-Thrones-Man-Without-Honor-Recap-23097797#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;just keep reading.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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 <description>&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/Vampire-Diaries-Season-3-Finale-Recap-Departed-23051449&quot;&gt;&lt;img  width=160 height=160  src=&#039;http://media2.onsugar.com/files/2012/05/19/4/192/1922283/d0233a0a209ae10e_65545.large.jpg&#039; /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;p&gt;Season three of &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.buzzsugar.com/tag/The-Vampire-Diaries&quot; &gt;The Vampire Diaries&lt;/a&gt; has come to an end, folks, and forgive me if I am still sitting here with my jaw wide open. The finale is eventful, to say the least, and like seasons past, we saw the deaths of a couple of characters - along with the red herring deaths of a couple of characters. Oh, and by that I mean that something super crazy happens in the final moments of the episode that we&#039;ll be talking about all Summer.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;I can&#039;t really talk about too much before the break without spoiling everything, so let&#039;s get to it. Dry your tears over that fact that there won&#039;t be any new episodes of &lt;b&gt;The Vampire Diaries&lt;/b&gt; for a few months, and let&#039;s get to the final good, bad, and bloody of season three &lt;a href=&quot;/Vampire-Diaries-Season-3-Finale-Recap-Departed-23051449#read-more&quot; title=&quot;Read more.&quot; class=&quot;read-more&quot;&gt;after the jump.&lt;/a&gt;</description>
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&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;We&#039;re happy to present this story from one of our favorite sites, &lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/5-reasons-being-a-single-man-is-kind-of-overrated&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Good Men Project&lt;/a&gt;. Today, Damon Young names five reasons being a single man is overrated.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;While most will probably remember 2012 as the &quot;Year Of The YOLO&quot; (and by &quot;most&quot; I mean &quot;like seven people&quot;), it holds special significance for me because it’ll likely be the first year since 2002 where I spent the entire year single. I haven’t completed a full calendar year yet - May will make it seven months since the former Lady Champ and I decided to go our separate ways - but because I seem to enjoy doing random anthropological experiments on myself for absolutely no reason (&lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/INTJ&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;and because I’m an INTJ and INTJs apparently suck at relationships&lt;/a&gt;), I’m confident that I’ll make it to 2013 without having to change my Facebook relationship status again.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;h4&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/three-little-known-stressors-that-are-killing-men&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Three Little-Known Stressors That Are Killing Men&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h4&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Anyway, if I could sum up my seven months of singledom in one word, it would most likely be &quot;interesting.&quot; I’ve met some &quot;interesting&quot; people, done some &quot;interesting&quot; things, made some &quot;interesting&quot; decisions, and, most importantly, thought some &quot;interesting&quot; thoughts. The most &quot;interesting&quot; of these &quot;interesting&quot; thoughts? Being a single man is kind of overrated.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Now, as I stated on the day where I wrote about orgasms, &quot;overrated&quot; doesn’t mean &quot;bad.&quot; In fact, as the careers of Tupac and Derrick Rose continue to prove, something can be very, very good - even great - and still be overrated. I’ve enjoyed being single, and will likely continue to enjoy it. But, while it seems like many assume that being a single man (a single Black man, at that) is nothing but an utopic stream of easy popsicles and cold pancakes, there are a few downsides.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;It can be very lonely&lt;/b&gt;. As a person who wanted to be single, is a natural introvert, and generally enjoys doing things by himself, I’m surprised by how, for lack of a better term, &quot;noticeable&quot; the solitude and loneliness of singledom can be. Even when seeing multiple people and/or having tons of friends, being single means that you are . . . single, by yourself, and there may be times when you want to have someone around but there will be no one that you want to be around readily available to be around.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Then, to add insult to injury, if you’re an angsty motherf*cker like me, you’ll start thinking things like &quot;Wait. I’m a single man. A single Black man. My dad named me after Dolemite. Shaka Zulu is my second cousin. People who’ve never even met me call me &quot;Champ&quot; for chrissakes. Why the f*ck do I feel lonely right now?&quot; which’ll make it even worse.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;You have to wear condoms. And, wearing condoms sucks.&lt;/b&gt; If you’re one of the 137 people left on Earth who always has protected sex - even if in a long-term, monogamous relationship - just skip this section and move on to #3. Also, I’ve left a plate of gotdamn sugar cookies at the end of this post as a reward for your duty. Please eat them with a gotdamn smile.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;If you’re not one of these people, you should be able to relate to how frustrating it’s been to go from condom-less sex to having to worry about having gotdamn condoms all the damn time. And, even if you’re not actively having sex, &quot;Do I have condoms?&quot; and &quot;Since I don’t have condoms, is there somewhere close where I can buy them?&quot; always has to be on your mind.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Also, from a logistical perspective, they’re a hassle to put on, they smell like a pack of slutty balloons, and &quot;sex with condoms&quot; will always be the Mike Conley of coitus. There is always the alternative - just don’t wear condoms while single, either - but I think one Cromartie per generation is enough.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(Btw, is it just me, or has the price of condoms spiked dramatically in the past four years? I was last single in 2008, and I don’t remember a box of condoms costing as much as it does to fill a gas tank. Does this qualify as a &quot;first world problem?&quot; If a Black blogger bitches about condoms in the woods, would Kanye’s missing draws make a sound?) As much as condoms suck, they don’t suck as much as . . .&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;Having to participate in the dating game.&lt;/b&gt; In a paradox so annoying that I almost didn’t mention it today because I plan on spending an entire day on this sole topic soon, I love meeting new, interesting women but I hate the process that usually goes along with meeting new, interesting women. I understand (and appreciate) the purpose of the process, but knowing why it’s necessary doesn’t mean that you have to enjoy it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;The superficial romantic connections synonymous with singledom gets old.&lt;/b&gt; Ironically, the best thing about being a single man - possessing the ability to have myriad short, commitment-free relationships AT THE SAME DAMN TIME!!! - ends up being one of the worst after enough time has passed. This actually hasn’t happened to me yet. I guess I’m still in the single honeymoon phrase. But, I’m certain it will, and the thought of this happening is already depressing me. Actually, this entire list is getting depressing. ***Making note to self to make sure tomorrow’s post is about the playoffs or strippers or something***&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;b&gt;You start to realize some, um, &quot;unpositive&quot; things about yourself.&lt;/b&gt; I’ve been in three long-term - &quot;long term&quot; = &quot;monogamous relationship lasting at least a year&quot; - relationships as an adult. Each of these relationships failed, and my wanting to be single was the main catalyst behind each of these failures. Now, because I’ve always been a guy who did all the &quot;right on paper&quot; relationship things - I’ve never cheated, never physically or verbally abused any girlfriends, always followed the chivalry handbooks, etc - I’ve always assumed that I’m good at being a partner. But, these last few months have made me realize that I have some real deficiencies in the relationship department - personality quirks that have subtly sabotaged each relationship I’ve been in.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I wouldn’t quite call myself a trojan horse - the sabotage isn’t intentional (at least it’s not consciously intentional) - but I’m just not very good at this relationship thing right now, and I intend to spend the rest of 2012 trying to figure out why.&lt;br /&gt;
That’s it for me today. Fellas - single or coupled up - how do you feel about the concept of singledom? Is it all the beer commercials make it out to be, or do you agree that it may be slightly overrated? Also, ladies, are the &quot;single man problems&quot; expressed today at all similar to any &quot;single woman problems?&quot;&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/the-girls-who-taught-me-i-was-gay&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;The Girls Who Taught Me I Was Gay&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/arts/in-defense-of-hipsters/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;In Defense of Hipsters&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/machismo-harms-relationships/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;Machismo Harms Relationships&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://goodmenproject.com/sex-relationships/fbi-female-body-investigator-quiz/&quot;  target=&quot;_blank&quot;&gt;FBI: Female Body Investigator Quiz&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
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