"I'm Not Sure What I Want Anymore"


Updated 05/23/12 1:54 PM · Posted by · 3 comments

I'm Not Sure What I Want Out of My Relationship

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I am having a hard time making some big decisions in my life right now. My boyfriend and I are currently long distance, but we were together for over two years before that. After he moved, we stayed together for a while and then broke up for a few months because of the distance and unclear Read more

The Questions You Must Answer to Get a Spousal Green Card


Updated 05/22/12 11:45 AM · Posted by · 0 comments

Green Card Marriage Questions

Each year, almost 80,000 foreign spouses are awarded US green cards. The American government has determined that these couples are in bona fide relationships with the help of the "Stokes interview." Stokes refers to a federal court decision that ordered New York's immigration services to be more fair in deciding marriage green card cases. When officials have any suspicion that they're dealing Read more

"I Snooped and Found Something . . . Now What?"


Updated 05/23/12 2:05 PM · Posted by · 29 comments

I Snooped My Boyfriend's Phone

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I'll try my best to make this short. I really appreciate any and all advice here, I am so stumped on what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for about three months now. I'm 24 he is 28. We met at work, and were not really friends before we started dating. So basically I have some Read more

Grey's Anatomy Season Finale Rundown, "Flight"


Updated 05/20/12 5:37 PM · Posted by · 21 comments

Grey's Anatomy "Flight" Season Finale Recap

It's hard for me to even write this recap because I'm so mad at Grey's Anatomy right now. The death of a major character in the season finale has been teased for weeks, but it's not left until the episode's final moments. In fact, it happens in the first 20 minutes, and once it does, it's hard to focus on anything else. I'll save my spoilers for below the break, but this is definitely one of Read more

How Not to Destroy Your Marriage


Updated 05/18/12 12:53 PM · Posted by · 0 comments

How Not to Destroy Your Marriage

We're happy to present this story from one of our favorite sites, The Good Men Project. Today, Mark Tyrrell offers eight relationship tools to make your marriage work. "All marriages are happy. It's the living together afterward that causes all the trouble." — Raymond Hull So how do you make your marriage work? Or do you just blindly hope it'll take care of itself? Think of a hot, successful Read more

"Is My Boyfriend Talking to His Female Friend Too Much?"


Updated 05/18/12 11:42 AM · Posted by · 38 comments

Boyfriend Close to Female Friend

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! Please do not judge me and actually give me advice. I've been with my guy for one year and a half now. He has his fair share of friends, including females: which is totally fine with me. I am NOT a jealous person. However, he has this one female friend that he's known for nine years and in he Read more

"Does His Single Facebook Status Matter?"


Updated 05/22/12 8:05 PM · Posted by · 8 comments

Changing Facebook Relationship Status

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! We have been dating for two years now, already talking about marriage. A year ago I changed my facebook relationship status into "in the relationship." He didn't. He is still single in Facebook. I never brought this up as it is sounds childish. Two months ago I changed mine into "single." I Read more

"Four Years and No I Love You"


Updated 05/20/12 12:50 PM · Posted by · 7 comments

Boyfriend Won't Say I Love You

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I've been with my boyfriend for four years. We see each other often, though we don't live together (we each have our own kids from prior marriages). We have a lot in common, enjoy each other's company, etc. We're in our 40s, so I hope that by now, we have a better idea of what makes a Read more

"Is This a Controlling Relationship?"


Updated 05/13/12 5:55 AM · Posted by · 10 comments

Controlling Relationship

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments! I've been with my boyfriend for seven months now, and we decided to move in together after three months because he had to find a new house. His mum also moved in with us — she used to live with him before — but I was fine about it because I get on well with her. I didn't tell my mum and Read more

TrèsSugar's Ultimate Wedding Guide


Updated 05/25/12 4:04 PM · Posted by · 0 comments

Wedding Ideas on TresSugar

Ready or not, wedding season is here — and chances are you're taking part in it in one way or another. Whether you're a guest, a bridesmaid, a sister of the bride, or the one walking down the aisle, questions and concerns are bound to come up. And we're here to help! Here on TrèsSugar, we hope to be the spot where you can come for answers to your wedding-related relationship dilemmas, modern Read more