Feb 20, 2009 -
I've asked you in the past whether or not you think it's OK for a woman to fake an orgasm, and the results were split. Some of you said you had no need to fake it (lucky!), while others owned up to doing it occasionally just to give your man an ego-boost, or so you could get some sleep.
Well in case you didn't know, guys fake the "Big O" too.
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Aug 24, 2009 -
I remember talking to a friend of mine years ago who told me that she'd never had an orgasm with a man — but that she almost always faked it.
It really surprised me because she seemed otherwise like a take-charge kind of woman — confident, beautiful, and certainly not shy. I didn't understand why she'd feel the pressure!
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Aug 03, 2008 -
My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for over five months. I'm very happy with where we are as couple except for one area: our sex life. My boyfriend just doesn't do it for me!
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Dec 21, 2007 -
According to Tracey Cox, iVillage's sex expert, only 30 percent of women orgasm from penetration alone. Which means that sometimes, we just gotta fake it. So a few weeks ago, I asked you to weigh in on how many orgasms you faked in 2007.
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Apr 07, 2008 -
Sometimes sex can be hard work and sometimes you're just too tired to put forth the effort. If you're more interested in having a short love-making session so you can get to dreaming, one option is to fake it. Some women have no qualms about pulling a Meg Ryan, especially if they're in a new relationship, but other women wouldn't dare fake a good time, namely because they wouldn't be able to make it seem believable.
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Sep 21, 2007 -
It's a sad fact that it can take a woman much longer to climax during sex than it can for a man. If we're not that into it from the start, 30 minutes can go by and we're not even close to orgasm. The guy can try every trick he's got to get you excited, but sometimes, it's just not gonna happen.
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Dec 07, 2007 -
Let's be real — sometimes it takes a little extra TLC in order for us women to reach the big O. Other times it comes easily and then there are those times when no matter what you do, it's just a lost cause. So what are you supposed to do you ask?
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Oct 17, 2009 -
Achieving an orgasm is a hot topic. Women want more, are faking it, and are looking for ways to make it easier and more enjoyable. Can you imagine what it's like to have too many orgasms then, as in 100 to 200 a day?
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Oct 01, 2009 -
This week's America's Next Top Model wasn't much more entertaining than last week's snoozefest (Bella seems to agree, awarding it just three short-legged "Milos"). But it was a bit better, mostly because we got a little more screen time with Tyra, there was a model who appeared to be faking orgasms during the photo shoot, and we had Laura wearing her grandma's clothing creations with pride ("Majah," Miss J said of the look). All in all, not bad, but I've come to expect more from you, ANTM.
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Aug 21, 2009 -
"I’ve never actually met a woman who wasn’t orgasmic. I’ve met women who’ve put themselves against a cultural idea, but we orgasm differently from the model that we’re told orgasm is."
This is the last post in a four-part series of interviews I had with Nicole Daedone, who is emerging as the leader of the slow-sex movement, and who founded the OneTaste urban retreat center in San Francisco.
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