Jun 29, 2008 -
My current boyfriend who is 28, three years younger than me, just got a job offer with loads of benefits. I was with him through his job search and all of his disappointments. I did everything I could think of to be as supportive as possible, but now I feel insecure.
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Mar 19, 2009 -
Even the most beautiful and seemingly perfect women have insecurities about their bodies, especially in the bedroom. I guess it's just part of life as a woman! For some, it's relatively simple to embrace flaws, but insecurities can be crippling for others.
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Jun 12, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
My husband and I have been married for over a year. We have a sturdy relationship except that I'm very insecure about a particular ex of his. When we first got together, they were still friends and he flirted a little with her when he saw her.
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Jun 30, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
I have been with the man that I plan to marry for a little over a year now. He is a great guy, but something recently happened that I just can't seem to get over. He was married previously, and things ended badly with his wife — she cheated on him.
- 20 Comments
Aug 12, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
I am in a relationship with a wonderful guy and the only problem we have is me — I cannot control my jealousy. I take every look or stare he gives another woman as a demerit to myself, leaving me wondering why I'm not good enough. I know a look is just a look, but I can't help but take it personally.
- 20 Comments
Apr 03, 2009 -
I'm currently in an interracial relationship and I'm really annoyed at the odd looks we occasionally receive while out and about. My boyfriend is white and I am Middle Eastern-looking (Turkish/German) so we do have different skin color. I am upset that this seems to matter to some people and it is starting to make me feel bad about myself, and I've always been really proud of my interesting look!
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Jul 29, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. When it came time to resign our leases last spring, we both did as we knew it was much too soon to live together. He is 27 and pretty much has his life together while I'm 22, have a ton of debt, and am contemplating going back to school.
- 16 Comments
Mar 05, 2007 -
DearSugar --
I am so insecure in my current relationship, but in reality, I know that I am being irrational and ridiculous. I am just getting divorced after a three year marriage from someone that didn't treat me like anything special. My new boyfriend has never done anything to make me doubt him or the way he feels about me and I believe him when he tells me he loves me.
- 9 Comments
Mar 13, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
This past weekend two of my boyfriend's close friends broke up with their girlfriends. We have a great relationship and are really close, but I'm worried that as a result of their newly single status, my boyfriend will want to spend more time with the guys and a lot less time with me. These two particular guy friends don't tend to make very good decisions and could potentially pull my boyfriend along for the ride.
- 10 Comments
Jul 28, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
My boyfriend has been cheated on a lot in his past. Now that he's with me, he doesn't know how to trust and he's convinced that I'm going to cheat on him, too. He accuses me of being unfaithful anytime I'm with my friends, even though the thought has never even crossed my mind.
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