Aug 18, 2008 -
Dear Sugar,
I've never had an orgasm. Not with another person or on my own. All the advice I find just tells me to relax and spend some time alone getting to know myself.
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May 14, 2007 -
Dear Sugar--
For almost a year now I have been involved with a man, and it was great for a while, I still feel there is a lot of chemistry between us inside and outside the bedroom, the thing is I never have orgasms when we have sex, I don't know why, maybe it's the fact that he's married and I feel like crap for being in a relationship of this nature but truth be told...I've never had an orgasm during sex, I'm 29 years old and I'm scared something is wrong with me, I need some advice.
--Unsatisfied Samantha
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Nov 04, 2009 -
Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm?
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Aug 21, 2009 -
"I’ve never actually met a woman who wasn’t orgasmic. I’ve met women who’ve put themselves against a cultural idea, but we orgasm differently from the model that we’re told orgasm is."
This is the last post in a four-part series of interviews I had with Nicole Daedone, who is emerging as the leader of the slow-sex movement, and who founded the OneTaste urban retreat center in San Francisco.
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Sep 09, 2009 -
Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column. Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm?
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Aug 17, 2009 -
"There’s a way that we actually have men take all the responsibility for sexuality, and then we get upset that they’re holding it."
This is the second in a four-part series of interviews I had with Nicole Daedone, who is emerging as the leader of the slow-sex movement and who founded the OneTaste urban retreat center in San Francisco. OneTaste invites men and women to learn about mindful sexuality by participating in workshops, yoga, and (for residents only) controversial "OMing" sessions in which men stroke women to orgasm during daily morning sessions.
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Aug 24, 2009 -
I remember talking to a friend of mine years ago who told me that she'd never had an orgasm with a man — but that she almost always faked it.
It really surprised me because she seemed otherwise like a take-charge kind of woman — confident, beautiful, and certainly not shy. I didn't understand why she'd feel the pressure!
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Aug 12, 2009 -
Welcome to Hump Day, TrèsSugar's sex advice column! Are you confused about sex? Do you have trouble having an orgasm?
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Sep 04, 2008 -
Overview
- Alternative Names
- Information
- References
Illustrations
Male and female reproductive systems
HEALTH GUIDE REFERENCE FROM A.D.A.M
Alternative Names
Inhibited sexual excitement; Sex - orgasmic dysfunction; Anorgasmia
Information
Orgasmic dysfunction is when a woman either can't reach orgasm, or has difficulty reaching orgasm when she is sexually excited.
CAUSES, INCIDENCE, AND RISK FACTORS
The condition is called primary orgasmic dysfunction when a woman has never had an orgasm. This is the case in 10 - 15% of women.
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Oct 08, 2008 -
In This Report
- Highlights
- Introduction
- Considerations
- Male Contraception
- Surgery
- Complications
- Unexpected Pregnancy
- Long-Term Complications
- Reversal Surgery
- Assisted Reproductive Techn...
- Resources
- References
HEALTH GUIDE REFERENCE FROM A.D.A.M
Highlights
Search Continues for the "Male Pill"
Research is progressing on a male contraceptive, but there have also been setbacks. The drug miglustat (Zavesca), which is used to treat a rare condition called Gaucher's disease, had shown success in animal studies but failed to work in a clinical trial, according to results published in 2007 in Human Reproduction. Researchers are now investigating an experimental drug, Adjudin (AF-2364), which disrupts sperm production.
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