First of all, what are you doing pilfering through your date's cell phone? Snoopers never win my friends. But if you are legitimately worried about whether or not he's a player, I've got a few options on how to figure the situation out without looking like the jealous type. Find out more when you
- Ask yourself: What does he do for a living? If your date is in PR, marketing, or any type or advertising, he's going to have a lot of entries, female and male. Don't judge the contact list by its cover.
- Watch a wandering eye: If your guy is on a date with you and is constantly checking out other scenery, he's probably just not that into you.
- Go with your gut: If you have a gut reaction after seeing the male-to-female ratio that says this dude is a player, then go with it. Sometimes, listening to the little voice inside that's telling you to run away is the one you should obey. Never mind the fact that he's drop-dead gorgeous, just run.
- Wait it out: If you're having a good time and aren't looking to marry the guy (well, not yet anyway), then maybe you should go on a couple more dates before you start worrying about how many contacts he has on his email list. Just sayin.