Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a while now, and I find as if I am paying for him a lot, I realized at first he would pay for both our movie tickets and stuff, but now it seems as if he just doesn't want to pay anymore . . . I am confused as to why because I know he has enough money to pay for my coffee or our date sometimes. I usually offer to pay, and I wish I could stop, but I like treating him to things. But I am running out of money fast. He works full-time, and I am a full-time university student living on my own without a job. I have enough money to get by, but there is a real shortage. I am dreading the date where my card gets declined.