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This or That: Constantly Wants Sex or Never Wants Sex?

Your boyfriend just changed careers paths and now he’s doing something that he really cares about — it’s a huge step and comes with a lot more power and responsibility. With the new job, you've noticed a complete change in his mojo and you’re not sure how you feel about it. Would it be worse if . . .

This: He just can’t seem to get enough? Every waking hour you’re together he’s trying to put the moves on you, and when you decline he proceeds to act offended. You’re not sure if the power's gone to his head, but you sure can’t keep up.

Or . . .

That: He’s suddenly uninterested? It used to be fun to be the pursuer on occasion, but now it’s as if you’re the one doing all the work. He’s probably just stressed out, but this is a huge price to pay.


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calli-gurl calli-gurl 8 years
its nice to know that he doesnt have enough of me rather than knowing that he had enough of me. we didnt do it yet, but i like knowing that he wants to do it badly but is waiting to get married. i dont wanna know that i repel him rather than turning him on.
SpinSuga SpinSuga 9 years
My boyfriend is a manager & works all of the time & is always tired & passes out during us watching a movie so when bedtime hits, Im left feeling frustrated & neglected. Ive tried talking to him about this problem & he says he has always had a low sex drive, even before me. Its very frustrating & not fun & is starting to cause serious problems between us. Trust me, I would MUCH rather have him want it too much! It can be a big blow to any womans self esteem esp coming from ex's in the past who had a normal sex drive!
JaimeLeah526 JaimeLeah526 9 years
Him not wanting it at all would definitely be worse.
RaCheer RaCheer 9 years boyfriend wants it every waking second. It's been like this for 5 years too. I am incredibly flattered but I just don't want or need it as much as him and it greatly offends him when I don't and it makes me feel really bad. I don't know what's worse...
sparklestar sparklestar 9 years
I want it like 3 times a day and he's happy with once every day/every other day... I want it more. :p I've been with guys who have NO sex drive and it's horrible.
pureperfection pureperfection 9 years
no sex or little sex means break up for me.
jillerin457 jillerin457 9 years
Wish I could say otherwise, but BC has killed my libido, so it would really put a strain on us if he wanted it all the time!
Silverlining10 Silverlining10 9 years
I don't live with my boyfriend and only see him a couple times a week, but if I started living with my boyfriend, he would have no excuse not to want sex every day.
ladychaos ladychaos 9 years
I've been on the both highs and lows side...and trust, its more tolerable to be with a guy with a hyperactive sex drive...
tomatoshirt tomatoshirt 9 years
I want it every hour on the hour... LOL just want to say that out loud actually...
WiCkeD_LaDy WiCkeD_LaDy 9 years
I'm with you Almostfamous, very truth, and i think, now that he's far away, is going to be more difficult.....
kiwitwist kiwitwist 9 years
I am saying if he wanted it everyday would be worse for me. I think after awhile it would get on my nerves. But my sex drive isn't the best to begin with LOL!
Fallen85 Fallen85 9 years
My man already is like the first kind. We're almost at a year together and still every single day he is jumping all over me. I love that I turn him on so much... I would go insane if his sex drive dropped off the face of the earth. What an awful thing to go through!
almost-famous almost-famous 9 years
If he don't want sex, then he's just a friend!
bbkf bbkf 9 years
I definitely need my man to keep up with me, and I'm an every day type of girl.
number6_ed number6_ed 9 years
As someone who's bf has a very low sex drive to begin with (I'm talking once every few months here!!!), I would love it if he wanted it all the time.
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