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Jesse James Has a "Huge Hole" in His Heart After Sandra Left 2010-04-28 07:39:47

Jesse James Speaks of the "Huge Hole" in His Heart and Letting Sandra Go

Jesse James also opened up to People this week to share his side of the story about his divorce from Sandra and the adoption of baby Louis Bardo Bullock. He was spotted grabbing food from his Cisco Burger restaurant in LA yesterday, but he spoke to the magazine earlier and revealed he now has a "huge hole" in his heart. Jesse said:

"My whole life has been full of hard decisions. The decision to let my wife end our marriage, and continue the adoption of Louis on her own, has been the hardest. The love I have for Louis cannot be put to words. Not having him around to love and to hold has left a huge hole in my heart. Sandy is the love of my life, but considering the pain and devastation I have caused her, it would be selfish to not let her go. Right now it is time for me to beat this addiction that has taken two of the things I love the most in life.

I have always taken great pride in proving people wrong. That time has come once again to show that I am not what everyone says I am. I know in my heart that I can be the best father possible to my four children, and the mate Sandy deserves, and realize that this is an incredible mountain to climb. But I believe that the steps I have taken in the last 30 days are the foundation for making this happen. The lifelong commitment I am making is what being a real husband and father is all about.

I ask that you please do not judge Sandy for the things I have done. She has done no wrong. She played no part in any of this. She has been an amazing wife, mother, and best friend, for the over 6 years we have been together."

It sounds like Jesse is committed to finishing up the work he started while in rehab for his sex addiction. Their split is a sad twist in the story for Sandra and Jesse, but hopefully things work out best for their family and baby Louis.

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Burkina Burkina 7 years
I feel bad for him when it comes to not being the father of Louis. It was a joint decision to adopt him....why is she taking the boy?
Go2Girl Go2Girl 7 years
After he gets help for his please let him get some fashion advice on those overalls.
sayhk sayhk 7 years
spanishgirl69 spanishgirl69 7 years
it kinda was her fault if a guy was married twice before you it should raise a red flag
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 7 years
His comments are crazy. He's a narcissist.
sabrina27 sabrina27 7 years
Love Sandy, shes going to be an amazing mom to that little boy
anya82 anya82 7 years
the huge hole is his heart, heartless hillbilly has the nerve the say he's sad? no one care how you feel, moron.
little-k little-k 7 years
And what about his Nazi addiction that his own dad says he had since childhood?
Asche Asche 7 years
In some states, both parties have to consent to the divorce. Texas is probably one of those. Therefore, he essentially did grant his wife a divorce, with as pompous as that sounds.
Le-Luxe Le-Luxe 7 years
'Sex Addiction' is the most pathetic excuse I have ever heard. Nobody cares Jesse.
jamie-ferrari jamie-ferrari 7 years
Addiction is a real thing, including sex addiction. It's a sad situation for these two people who obviously love each other. My hope for them both is healing. Recovery is possible for anyone willing to change and with sometimes many years of therapy and self examination. Sandra Bullock seems like a very bright and wonderful person. I know she will do what is right for her and I wish her all the best. Jesse James has a lot of work ahead of him and I wish him all the best as well. I feel for anyone who is suffering and have known many people turn their lives around for the better, XO
juicebox07 juicebox07 7 years
I hope Sandra gets tested, and I hope she comes out clean. Especially since her husband supposedly banged that gross Michelle McGee without a condom. Jesse can apologize all he wants, but he's really only sorry he got caught, or else he wouldn't have done all that to begin with.
Asche Asche 7 years
I think people are being unfair. I'm not even going to begin to pretend I know and understand his motives for having an affair. Lots of people cheat, and for different reasons. It doesn't make it right, but it happens and should be no one's business. I do feel for him, though. I can't imagine what it would be like to spend years trying to adopt and, once you finally reach that goal and instantly fall in love with that baby, to have it all taken away from you. It must be hard.
jenni5 jenni5 7 years
He sucks! Glad Sandra is divorcing his as$!!!
samherlihy samherlihy 7 years
"Sex addiction" is such an overused excuse. Yes, it exists, but (like someone else pointed out) it's pretty rare and interferes with basic functioning. What all of these cheaters have is a need to feed their EGOS because they don't feel like big enough men on the inside. They need constant validation in the form of sex to feel good about themselves...which is sad, but NOT the partner's fault. I really REALLY hope that when all of these people say they're being treated for "sex addiction" that they have real doctors who treat them for their abysmal self-esteem and inability to value their partner. Probably not though, because it's waaay more difficult for a guy to admit he doesn't feel good about himself than it is to admit he just wants sex all the time. Blech.
jaan_black jaan_black 7 years
he's such a loser...I have to remember he IS related to the oh so sweet and loving family man/professional thief and murderer
noxcatt noxcatt 7 years
I do agree with Paya, Real sexual addiction is severe and interferes with normal daily functioning. I doubt these celebs can barely interact socially because of a hindering issue.
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