"It’s about learning how to play on a team; learning how to lose, learning how to win gracefully; learning how to trash talk and not get your feelings hurt. Because we don’t have brothers, right? I mean, there is a difference. My brother used to torment me in a very good way that toughened me up. But the girls — they need a little pushing every now and then just to see what it feels like, and I think all girls need that."