My Morning Juggle
4:45
My baby is usually a great night sleeper, but typically starts to rustle around between 3 a.m. and 5 a.m. Sometimes she falls back asleep on her own, but this morning is not one of them. I get up and give her a pacifier so I can get a bit more shut eye before I officially start “hitting the snooze button” around 6 a.m.
6:00
My partner's alarm goes off at 6 a.m. and he preps our daughter's bottle while making his morning coffee and breakfast. I press snooze and our daughter plays in her crib.
6:18
I give the snooze button a break and turn the alarm off — the light of my phone helps me acclimate to the concept of waking up as I do an email scan, check the news, and give Instagram a quick scroll.
6:25
I get out of bed and get the baby from her crib. Her father and I sometimes “fight” about who gets to wake her — when she sees us for the first time each morning, her smiles are literally the best part of the day. Today is my turn! And I am grateful that she’d been playing since 6 a.m.
6:26
Yep. She has a big poopy diaper, which is not unusual. I change her while her dad finishes up his breakfast and his own news scan.
6:30
Now happily in a fresh diaper, I hand the baby to her father so he can give her a bottle. I will eat later at work after having a cup of coffee, which I pick up right before walking into work, because I love my ritual of drinking it at my desk while I start my day. My man has thankfully boiled hot water for me, so I make my hot lemon water and take with me as I head for a shower.
6:35
I jump into the shower to rinse. Today is not a hair-wash day, so I'm not feeling much of a time crunch.
6:41
Out of the shower, I moisturize my face and body. I have recently been trying to give myself an extra few minutes of self-care in the morning by using a jade face roller. It just feels so refreshing.
6:46
Baby and papa read a book in bed while I get dressed.
6:52
I never know what I'm wearing until the spur of the moment, but I find a clean pair of jeans (yay) and a sweater and throw them on. My partner will shower at the gym at his office — so this morning is a little bit more chill around coordinating our efforts.
7:00
I finish drinking my hot lemon water while I do my makeup: tinted moisturizer, brow gel, eyeshadow, a coat of mascara, cream blush, and tinted lip balm. Since I’m stretching my last shampoo, I dab dry shampoo on my hair and brush it through. I realize tomorrow I will have to wake up on time, 6 a.m., so I can wash my hair. Ugh.
7:08
The baby sits in her bouncy chair while her grandmother has her tea and toast. Next week, we will transition to nanny share at our house, and I feel fortunate to have my mother-in-law taking care of our baby until then. My partner and I dash around getting things ready and finding our bags. We both hit the bathroom sink to brush our teeth.
7:11
It’s rare that I prep a lunch for myself, but I silently pat myself on the back for making my overnight soaked oats yesterday for breakfast today, which I will eat at my desk. I quickly grab that from the fridge, along with blueberries, and throw both in my bag.
7:14
Final breeze through the house, looking for easy flats to throw on. Locate my jacket, and decide I also need a scarf. Kiss my girl and head for the car. My partner is dropping me off at the BART station.
7:25
Get to the BART station and the first train arrives as I am headed down to platform. It's headed to San Francisco. My lucky day. Once in the car, I slip in ear buds to listen to The Daily podcast from the New York Times.
7:47
No train delays. Phew. Walk to my favorite coffee spot for my morning cup. I look forward to this daily ritual.
7:54
At my desk with coffee in hand. Congratulate myself that I made it into the office before 8:00. I am ready to take on the day.