9 Ways To Teach Kids How to Accept Gifts Graciously (Even When They Hate Them)

Whenever your little one receives a gift, focus on why the gifter picked out that present as well as the time and thoughtfulness it took instead of mostly on what the gift itself is. This will show little ones from early on that it truly is the thought that counts instead of you having to constantly repeat that phrase.

If your child starts to think that they are entitled to gifts for a certain occasion or of a specific cost, they are setting themselves up to come off as ungrateful when their standards aren’t met. A child should learn that they are privileged to be given any present and no matter what they receive, it is always a bonus and not something they are entitled to.

When your child gets involved in gift giving and feels first hand the excitement of picking out a present for someone that they think a loved one will enjoy, they will be able to better empathize with how a person feels when they don't show gratitude for a present.

If adults focus on the size of a gift, like "look how big that box is!" or "great things come in small boxes!" it sets kids to get excited for those presents that come in certain packaging and not focus appreciation on the gift itself. Always make sure your child's attention is on the note if there is one and the meaning behind the gift instead of its physical size or monetary amount.

Children pick up on how adults are feeling, and if you seem less than impressed with the gift they just received, there's a good chance they will model your sentiments. Make a point to demonstrate appreciation, excitement, and gratitude as they are opening up their presents and soon this will become the norm for your child, too.

Although most parents try to make sure their child says thank you after receiving a gift, verbally saying it isn't enough. Kids need to understand that saying "thank you," is expressing their gratitude, which doesn't work unless they actually mean it. From their body language to the tone in which they say those magic words, kids need to comprehend the importance of thanking someone for a gift and not just be forced to say empty words.

Don't wait to start teaching your child how to be gracious just because of his or her age. Start the discussion early and work with them on showing appreciation with every gift they open.

Instead of avoiding the conversation of why it's okay to "lie" if they don't like a gift, focus on discussing empathy and being aware of someone's feelings. Explain the power their words and reactions have on the person who went out of their way to do something nice just for them.

Kids pick up their parents' behavior even when they don't think their children are paying any attention. It's one thing to ensure to tell your child to be grateful for whatever they get, but if you express a negative opinion or disappointment during different occasions with your own gifts, they will think that is acceptable and learn that expressing gratitude doesn't still have to happen if you don't actually like the gift.