12 Ways to Wear White to a Wedding Without Offending the Bride

Updated on 4/18/2022 at 4:35 PM

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As a rule of thumb, the short answer to "Can I wear white to a wedding?" is generally no, simply out of respect for the bride who will likely be wearing a white gown. Of course, there's a chance she may be an unconventional bride who likes to make her own rules, and she might go for less popular silhouettes, like short hemlines, and non-white colors for the big day. Still, if you won't see the final look until the day of, it's wise not to compete and make it harder to know who's actually getting married. When in doubt, chat with the bride about your potential ensemble.

Etiquette experts typically agree that unless the bride gives explicit permission, guests should avoid the color at all costs. As an alternative, there are plenty of seasonally appropriate colors and styles to wear.

If you really want some white in your wedding guest attire, it is possible. The trick is finding options with either a print (think florals or stripes) or some type of an accent. Champagne-colored dresses are also perfect if you prefer lighter shades for summer nuptials, as they pair especially well with an oceanside ceremony. Need a place to start? We rounded up several dresses in off-white, beige, and soft pastels that will make you an automatic contender for best-dressed guest. Jonathan Simkhai's button-embellished mini dress makes for a playful option, while Johanna Ortiz's silk maxi dress packs some serious glam. The & Other Stories tulle midi dress will turn you into an absolute vision, as will Markarian's polished off-shoulder gingham print mini. Scroll on for these head-turning wedding guest fashion finds.

— Additional reporting by Shelcy Joseph

Jonathan Simkhai Eilish Button-Embellished Mini dress

This Jonathan Simkhai Eilish Button-Embellished Mini dress ($545) is a suitable off-white alternative to wearing white at a wedding. The short hem gives it a playful edge, while the straps create a little visual interest.

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Markarian Regina Mini Dress

This Markarian Regina Mini Dress ($1,495) features a striking gingham print and a glossy fabric that make it irresistibly chic. The off-shoulder silhouette and ruffle sleeves take the glamour to the next level. Pair it with a simple diamond necklace and matching heels.

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$1,495

Emilia Wickstead Mona Floral Cotton Midi Dress

A printed dress like this Emilia Wickstead Mona Floral Cotton Midi Dress ($1,100) is essentially a stylish workaround. This number has a painterly quality that will earn you tons of compliments. Wear it with white mules at a garden ceremony for an on-theme look.

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Significant Other Jacy Cutout Satin Maxi Dress

This Significant Other Jacy Cutout Satin Maxi Dress ($250) is drenched in a soft yellow hue. The plunging neckline, open back, and side cutouts are daring, on-trend additions. Pair it with a gold necklace and a banana yellow bag for a monochromatic effect.

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$250

Johanna Ortiz Solo Voyaging Silk Maxi Dress

This Johanna Ortiz Solo Voyaging Silk Maxi Dress ($1,250) is a chic alternative to a piece that could potentially compete with what the bride is wearing. The ruched detailing gives it texture while adding visual interest, and the fluid hem offers freedom of movement.

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$1,250

Jonathan Simkhai Harlow Lace Poplin Combo Bustier Midi Dress

This Jonathan Simkhai Harlow Lace Poplin Combo Bustier Midi Dress ($895) is just beige enough to pass as a non-white look. The sheer panel and lace texture give it a decidedly romantic, elegant feel.

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& Other Stories Square Neck Midi Dress

For a cool graphic print, look no further than this eye-catching & Other Stories Square Neck Midi Dress ($119). The bold print splashed all over will make a statement at the reception, plus the square neckline and subtle puff sleeves are so on-trend this season.

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& Other Stories Off Shoulder Tulle Midi Dress

The best wedding guest attire can be worn time and time again, which is why this & Other Stories Off Shoulder Tulle Midi Dress ($249) is such a favorite. The ruffle sleeves add a whimsical effect, making it ideal for weddings, date nights, holiday parties, and everything in between.

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Reformation Bridgton Linen Dress

This floral print Reformation Bridgton Linen Dress ($248) is practically made for destination weddings and garden parties. The off-shoulder silhouette and sweetheart neckline convey a feminine edge, while the side slit dials up the allure.

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ELLIATT Aleah Long Sleeve Satin Gown

Thanks to its dreamy, fluid hem, this ELLIATT Aleah Long Sleeve Satin Gown ($230) drapes over your body like a waterfall. The relaxed fit and slightly voluminous sleeves create the ultimate polished wedding look.

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$230

Weekend Stories Philamena Stripe Midi Dress

Incorporate white into your look with a classic striped pattern. This Weekend Stories Philamena Stripe Midi Dress ($268) achieves this perfectly, and can easily be worn to social functions besides weddings.

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Hutch Sweetheart Midi Dress

For all your summer weddings, the Hutch Sweetheart Midi Dress ($190) is a must. Pair this fun print with colorful heels, gold jewelry, and a matching bag to complete the vibrant look.

Hutch Sweetheart Midi Dress

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$190