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Mehndi Party for the Bride to Be

When my best friend got married, she wasn't into the all-night strip joint and bar-hopping scene. Before she met her now husband, she spent a year abroad in India, so when it was time for her Bachelorette Party, she knew exactly what she wanted to do.

In Indian traditions, the bride gets together with all her female friends and family right before she gets married and they have a Mehndi Party. She gets adorned with henna tattoos all over her hands and feet, so she looks beautiful on her wedding day. Of course, you may want to plan this party a few months before your big day, unless you want to wear henna with your fancy white dress.

Henna tattoos are all natural but not at all permanent. The henna only stains the outer layer of the skin, so it lasts about 2-4 weeks. The dried leaves of the henna plant are ground into a greenish powder, and then mixed with lemon juice and warm water (and anything else in their family's recipe). The chocolate-colored paste is applied with a cone (kind of like baker's use for decorating cakes) or with a thin stick.

The designs are extremely intricate and take hours to apply. The bride has to sit and wait for the paste to dry and set, so if she needs anything, all her gal pals take care of her. After a few hours, the dried paste is then peeled or brushed off the skin, revealing an orange print. Some people even wait until the next morning before peeling off the design to ensure a darker stain - I even slept with plastic bags on my hands, I like being decorated. Never wash the dried henna off with water since that will make the design fade faster. The color darkens over the next few days, but as the dead skin cells begin to slough off, the henna tattoo, too, begins to fade away.

Fit's Tips: If you love this idea, contact your local tattoo parlor, spiritual bookstore, yoga studio, or salon. Someone is bound to know someone who does Mendhi in your area. The artist can come and do just the bride, or do all the guests at your Bachelorette Party. Then for the 2-4 weeks you'll have a visual reminder of this special day spent with the girls.

Want to see what it looks like after the paste is peeled off? Then

Depending on family traditions, some brides have their husband's initials hidden in the designs, and the couple is not considered officially married until the groom finds them. I've also heard that as long as the henna remains on the bride's skin, she doesn't have to perform any wifely duties (like washing the dishes and doing the laundry). Too bad henna only lasts less than a month.

juiceejuice juiceejuice 10 years
that's coo. i love henna, always wanted one.
geebers geebers 10 years
I am kicking myself for not practicing henna/mendhi more- when I visited India years ago my aunt took me to henna classes and I learned how to make all these really intricate (and hard) designs - I bet I could be making hundreds of dollars if I continued to do it today. I used to do free shows here in booths for asian culture events - it was lots of fun. I doubt I have the skills to even try now but seeing how it is a fad where anything goes these days I can totally just make up a design and fake it!
pinupsweetheart pinupsweetheart 10 years
I think those are so beautiful. And if you go out in the sun - it will leave a tan mark of what design you had even after the henna has faded.
Emers Emers 10 years
I love having Henna done! It's my treat to myself whenever I go to Epcot Center in Disney World (twice now) - they do it in the Morraco pavillion and it's a nice reminder of my vacay for the next 2 weeks or so.
simplybe1 simplybe1 10 years
vsakakeeny, where in Boston is this place located? I live in the area and would love to check it out!
vsakakeeny vsakakeeny 10 years
This is fabulous. I've always wanted to do Mehndi but they don't have it where I live. This is motivating me to do it on my next trip back to the states. There's a place in downtown Boston that I've always wanted to go to.
jhuck jhuck 10 years
There was a big trend in that when I was younger. I had a kit, but I also had stencils so it took like 5 minutes to apply everything lol. Because I now live in a more multicultural area, a lot of women from around here who get married come back from their honeymoons with these designs. I think they're quite artsy and beautiful!
CestLaVie CestLaVie 10 years
This would be a lot of fun. Actually when I was in a tattoo parlor last weekend scheduling an appointment (this Friday baby!) there was a girl sitting there doing this on herself and it looked amazing. I couldn't believe she was coordinated enough to do this on her own hands!
flirtyfloridian flirtyfloridian 10 years
mehndi parties are held right before the wedding day because you DO want the color to show for your wedding. in india we believe that the darker the stain left behind, the deeper the love between the bride and groom. but different parts of the eastern world believe different things. this includes what type of pattern is used, peacocks, lotus flowers, geometric shapes etc. and what blessings will come from them. but because of retards like madonna something beautiful and with meaning slowly gets lost and just turns into a "cool fad" :(
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