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Aidan vs. Mr Big Sex and the City 2 2010-05-26 08:00:05

Big vs. Aidan — Who's More Your Type?

Carrie Bradshaw might have a hard time choosing between Mr. Big and Aidan Shaw, but I think the two leading men couldn't be more different. On the one hand you have confident, passionate, and mysterious Mr. Big who's always playing hard to get. And then there's Aidan, the type of guy who adores you and would never let you down, but might be a little too nice for some people's taste. While Big's unpredictability catches your attention, Aidan's sexy dedication could have more long-term appeal. If you were in Carrie's Manolos who would you choose — bigger than life Mr. Big or down to earth Aidan? You better make up your mind before the movie hits theaters tomorrow!

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LittleMzFit LittleMzFit 7 years
How easily people forget the long slow romance between Big & Carrie! :( Aidan was the one who copped out years before, if my memory serves me correctly. I'm staying w/ Mr. Big!
lickety-split lickety-split 7 years
Big (dreamy sigh) adien is not tough enough. Too marshmellow-ish :raspberry:
zeze zeze 7 years
Big, only because I would get bored with an Aidan, I think I would stop caring and just kind of roll right over him in everything because I know I can be a dictator if I don't have someone I perceive to be an equal (in attitude if nothing else), so an Aidan would never work out.
Miss-Senorita Miss-Senorita 7 years
sham28 sham28 7 years
Uh, the kind that actually likes me enough to consistently date me and isn't scared of having to man up every once in a while. So Aiden
lauraxtc lauraxtc 7 years
I like them Both. But I will stay with Big. lol.
AlexisSF AlexisSF 7 years
genesisrocks genesisrocks 7 years
For me: Aidan, but for Carrie: Big
kurniakasih kurniakasih 7 years
I always thought that Carrie is like 'Big' in Carrie-Aidan relationship. He obviously is into her more than she's into him. She's the one who 'withholds' and the more emotionally guarded in the relationship. While Big is, you know, the 'one' for Carrie because she seems to be more into him (especially in the shows--I saw how they have 'hot' chemistry or whatever, but yeah, when it comes to commitment-openness or relationship--Big is more closed off while Carrie was trying hard to get him to 'open up' to her). I guess when it all boils down to, it's pretty obvious that Carrie loves Big more than Aidan (as proven from shows and movies hehe, she did get married to him LOL).
Soniabonya Soniabonya 7 years
Aiden is my type :) I can see the appeal of Big, but he would wear on my psyche.
bryseana bryseana 7 years
Aidan seemed too in a rush to get married and settle down. Big is complex. And he makes you work for his affection like a cat. He's more interesting.
sourcherry sourcherry 7 years
In the show I liked Big a lot lot better, mostly because Aiden was too relaxed and too country for me (and for Carrie). But in real life I'm not attracted to hard to get, unpredictable guys, I go more for Aidens. It was the whole handy man thing that I'm not so attracted to. I like intellectual guys, sort of like Big...
postmodernsleaze postmodernsleaze 7 years
My own personality is way more compatible with an Aidan type, but Carrie is better with Big. Big definitely has that mysterious appeal, but I'd probably get really fed up with it after awhile. They're the ones that have the immediate appeal, but not the long-term appeal. I so agree with lilkimbo about Big & Carrie though. Aidan and Carrie never quite fit.
HoneyBrown1976 HoneyBrown1976 7 years
I'd like a mix of both. But, I would find Big more challenging to me, which would keep me interested.
bgorgeouss bgorgeouss 7 years
Aiden- he's not only nicer, but hotter, too! :)
simplystella simplystella 7 years
In dreams, Big. But in real life? Give me an Aidan! :)
lilkimbo lilkimbo 7 years
Apparently I'm one of the very few, but Big. It's not that Aidan is "too nice," I just find him kind of, well, boring. I also feel that Carrie and Big are more equals (in their relationship, not necessarily monetarily, etc.) than Carrie and Aidan. And, I would rather be an equal than have someone who loves me more than I love him.
Angelica Angelica 7 years
Nice is nice. Aidan!
nancita nancita 7 years
I don't really think Aidan was too nice. I'm sure he could get not nice if he wanted. And really, for the long run, nice is ... nice.
kismekate kismekate 7 years
I was inspired by this whole thing and wrote a blog on it : would love feedback!
adonnam04 adonnam04 7 years
I guess I love a "fixer-uper"... I'm always attracted to kinda cold mysterious "Big" types, but I like to turn them into wonderful "Aiden" types... Something is wrong w/ me :)
GlowingMoon GlowingMoon 7 years
Aidan. In fact, back in the day, I fancied myself a lot like Carrie, except I chose Aidan over Big. By the same token, my husband gave me a beautiful engagement ring, like the way Aidan gave Carrie.
KateAthens KateAthens 7 years
Big is the stereotype for successful douchebag of the 00's. His ego is as big as his wallet. Never liked him.
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