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Are Bachelor Parties Harmless?

"Are Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties Really Harmless?"

This question is from a Group Therapy post in our TrèsSugar Community. Add your advice in the comments!

I don't like the idea of bachelor/ette parties. I don't like the idea of my fiance getting drunk and getting lap dances and the possibility of it leading to sex. For a bachelorette party, I don't much fancy getting a male stripper, a guy dancing around just doesn't do it for me. I also don't like the thought process behind it, better have fun now because your life is over. I don't want to forbid my fiance to have a party but I don't want anything to happen. But I know his friends and I know they'll get strippers and do something stupid. I also know I can be a bit insecure. What do you think, are bachelor/ette parties harmless fun, or can they ruin a relationship? Also are you OK with your guy going to strip clubs?

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